45y this OCT, 5'10" 220# in NYC love montreal. love canadians . but real men are a must !!!! Let's answer some of my favorite internet questions right up front: 1.) "What are you into?" LOL. This should not be your first question!!!!!!1a) and "hello " doesnt mean that i want sex ...2.) "How big is your cock?" Now, isn't unwrapping the package half the fun? The answer is its big enough. Just dont lie to me about yours.3) " Are you versatile?" I am into versatile guys who are active either way .please dont just lay there. With a truly versatile guy, the skys the limit. But I dont mind specialists. Sex is not work !! a little give and take goes a long way!!!!!!!4) " You look like a big guy?" SO?! This package holds good things!!!! 5.) "What are you looking for?" Loaded question. I know it when I find it. When I dont look for something thats when I usually find it. Im open-minded. Id like you to be too.Sex is always better with some emotional attachment.What else? Big turn-ons for me are men who travel, men with range who are as comfortable in a museum as well as doing hard sweaty work. Brains and common sense go a long way with me !!!I love real, masculine guys who are mature, whether they are 25 or 50. .IF youre a guy who loves a real, honest, well-spoken, thoughtful black guy , then pvt me!!! I know the differents between love and sex! You should too! Respect given is given back! Dont waste my time or yours if you are married, in a relationship, or have an attitude problem.I will always give preference to honest, single guys who are looking for friendship or more.Which one are you? Mr. Right? Or Mr. Right Now?I have the right to suspend any rule I want at anytime .... get me in a good mood!