I'm ArtfulChub. Pleased to meet you!
Fifty one year old, artist, writer, musician and teacher here, who in the sexual arena is a bator, gooner, cammer and cocksucker. It all sounds sort of disparate, but I'd like to try, in this profile, to bring it all together for you, so you can sort of see the throughline and unity that I have come to know is there in myself.
Well it may seem kinda strange that I am this rather arty, very creative, intellectual sort of guy who creates all sorts of things, does helpful things in the world, loves to be in a long term relationship and is very loyal... and yet loves to bate, cam, and service guys, too. I will admit, it's complex, but I suppose we all are. And for me there is this spiritual throughline that I have mentioned above.
I am rather open, fun, free and exhibitionistic about my sexuality. I think sex is good and not really a moral issue (as the world tends to see it). And it is, like all things we experience, spiritual, and a way to share and connect. I just do not think it has to be exclusively with one person. It can just be fun, stress relieving etc., with other fellow humans.
I am emotionally monogamous with a life partner, but find that it is better and more realistic to have an open relationship sexually (as 70 percent of gay relationships are... and I suspect str8 ones, too, if the truth be told). I give you my more detailed philosophy concerning sex, life and spirit, below.
I am pantheistic and Priapian in approach: God in all things, including eros and shadow side. Masturbation on cam, to me, is ecstatic, worshipful connection with God, self and others. Blow jobs are play, stress relief, fun, needed, and helpful... and they could truly save the world!
A BJ or mutual masturbation session uplifts and edifies, just as a hug, smile or listening ear does. It is only our silliness and segmentation that has relegated sex, so often, to the realm of secrecy... when in reality it is something wonderful and healing to share with friends and even strangers.
Yes, God in all things, including chores, creating, professional life, good deeds in the world... and the bate and bjs, too! (And bjs ARE a good deed). All God. The universe is the body of God, and we and our lives (all we see, experience and do) is God experiencing.
We are, I believe, the eyes, ears, hands and mouth of God. "God wanted to see what it would be like to be you, and to be me." No separation between self, others, and God. Everything and everyone, under all the dross, is love... and love, as Course in Miracles asserts, is the only real thing. This is my current philosophy of life, sex and love, in a nutshell.
INTEGRATING MY PHILOSOPHY INTO LIFE:
And so, all the things in me that might seem so complex or even contradictory, are not, really.And yet, the segmenting, separation oriented world disagrees, and insists that we separate off the portions of us that are "not for polite company" (and sort of hide them).
But I am so very tired of segmenting. Segmentation is what is wrong with the world. Love, here on earth, is very conditional, and only certain parts of us can be loved in certain places, by certain people. This is not healthy and is soul *****ing, in my opinion.
Therefor, I am (sensibly) in some places on the net, trying to present the various me's as fully as possible. I am attempting to be more fully me, online and in "real life"... to pull the pieces of myself together. If only the world and everyone in it could do more of this, I think we'd heal ourselves and the planet.
There are so many aspects of me, just as there are for each of your reading this. You have come to the "sexy me" page, but there is also some of my music, artwork, photography, and even some writing here. These are all ways I use my abilities to entertain, uplift, bring smiles, and maybe, here, even give you a woo*****... at least I hope so! Wink.
Thank you so very much for stopping by, and I hope you will continue to read in the column to your right for a bit more explanation and some instructions regarding camming, getting serviced, etc. I look forward to meeting you and getting to know you!