Southern transplant to the Pacific Northwest. Furry, friendly, playful, educated enough to value common sense. Lover, husband, friend, *****, *****, buddy, playmate, romantic horn*****. I make work that people call art and that I just call "work".
After nearly 14 years together my Man & I got legally married.Now we can live out the fantasy of two married men getting it on. Sex feels dirtier that way. We have an extended ***** of men we hang out with, mutually support, celebrate, raise hell, and play with. Every now and again we play on our own, together and separately. We don't lie to each other - no secrets, no jealousy.
He's on here as nwperv so feel free to check him out and say hey.
I'm at that age where I can say "I'm too old/too young for this *****", including my own bad behavior. Not perfect, but I pay attention. I never take a compliment of any kind for granted. Most of my work and life takes place away from the screen, but I'll do my best to acknowledge/return messages, etc, and say "thank you" in a timely manner.
If something's not to my taste, I keep my virtual mouth shut and focus on what bones me. Hating isn't pretty. In fact, it makes the hater uglier than his target.
I appreciate the compliment of a friend invite, but if your profile has nothing of you or about you in it I'll decline the offer. I've made very rare exceptions for guys who've added my pix or vid to their favorites and/or who've been extremely complimentary, and have at least one self-photo.
If you send me an invite & we have a particular fetish or something else in common, feel free to tell me in as much dirty detail as possible. I love hearing what gives my bud*****s pleasure and comparing notes.
Healthy HIV+ and very careful with my neg bud*****s, tested regularly for all STD's. I know how to take care of my health, maximize pleasure, and minimize risk. I've known guys who claimed to be neg who only found out otherwise in the hospital, and men in their 40s or 50s needing a crash course in basic safer sex. I don't condemn, but I don't get it, either. With me, what I tell you is what you get.