Favorite sexual fantasy
Think of the Knights Templar or some kind of Asian Temple (like in the 1970s-era TV series "Kung Fu"), and add sex as an allowable interaction among members of the household.
The image is supposed to connote all of the following:
a) some kind of shared ethical sensibility, some devotion, on the part of all members of the household, to some unifying purpose or mission;
b) some kind of "trust" and "teamwork" orientation, to the point at which all members of the household consider themselves to have placed their lives in the hands of the other members of the household.
c) physical and mental/spiritual/emotional training consistent with achieving and maintaining a ***** degree of competence in the fulfillment of the mission of the household.
d) a household that, as an entity, not only has the potential to live until humankind ceases to exist, in the Universe; but, also, demonstrates awareness of the existence of that potential, in the everyday conduct of the business of that household and of the individual members of that household.
e) mutual love, fond regard, friendship, respect, etc., on the part of members of the household.
Stuff like that. Orgies with meaning, I guess. Fetishes and other play, but with purpose.
Obviously, insularity must represent a danger — it always has, with regard to such households, in the past. And that danger might prove so great as to destroy the household, completely, as has happened, with regard to past households. Yet, absent that insularity (or, at least, some sort of exclusivity) is the individuality — and pride in that individuality — of that household even described, much less maintained? I don"t know.
Governance and maintenance of the household must be a matter of concern. Attending to those matters must prove satisfying, or those matters will be neglected. The consequence of that neglect will be disaster brought upon the household. So, it ain"t all sex; it"s a gay ***** that, although all of whose members have reached the age of consent — and, thus, there would be no ***** *****ren within it — might prove as cohesive and "immortal" as any "straight" ***** now proves.
And I guess that"s the genesis of the fantasy. A band of *****s who love one another, rather than fuck each other over.
Sleeping, either in a "common room" or a private bower, and awakened by some anonymous caress to which you willingly, gladly, joyfully respond. The fingertips of any of the men with whom you live slide into the crack of your ass, in the morning; and you awaken, smile, and kinda ease back onto those fingers, with or without even opening your eyes, to seehose fingers they are.
In me*****val Japan, any person would allow himself or herself to be beheaded, on a *****ent"s notice, by a samurai; in this household, it would be more likely to be other acts — such as sexual acts — demonstrative of that same level of faith and trust in oneself and in another.
Whether such a household can exist in democratic or republican form, rather than in some kind of oligarchy or other class-based hierarchy is unknown to me. But it"s interesting to consider.