Lifestyle Dominant Woman in Coastal Orange County CA
Because of the un-user friendly photo uploader on this site, I'm not going to be updating any of my photos or vid clips here. If you want to find me elsewhere, google BeachMystress. For those of you who can't be bothered to read the whole profile, read the short list below before you write to me! * I'm not seeking. I am not interested if you think you'd be perfect for me or if my play photos or video clips turn you on. If you want YOUR fantasy played out, go pay a Pro. * I am NOT a public utility, nor am I life support for a whip/strapon/flogger. *Just because I am kinky doesn't mean I welcome photos of stranger's sex organs.I'm intelligent, creative, married and monogamous; a real time, sadistic, Lifestyle Dominant Woman involved in a 24/7 TPE (Total Power Exchange) marriage! This means I am the head of my household. My collared submissive husband is my property and does all the "wife" chores such housework and cooking. No, this doesn't mean he crawls around on all fours, *****s on the floor beside our bed and is kept naked all the time- well, ok, he is naked most of the time. Our relationship is real, not fantasy. It means he is attentive to my needs and meets them before I even realize I have them. Our relationship is very much like a traditional 1950's one with him in the role of the "wife." No, I don't cross dress him, but he waits on me hand and foot , as well as dealing with my sadistic and sexual desires. I first started showing dominant sexual behavior at 17, when I talked a *****friend into cross dressing (although I now prefer masculine subs) but only identified myself with being "Domme" in 2000. I'm a strong believer in SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) play, but also respect RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) if the people are truly aware of the risks involved. I am mildly active in the So Cal scene and occasionally attend munches and events. We also occasionally play at one of the local dungeons.