light skin bro
I can be reached at: firstname.lastname@example.org.
I"d bet that if you saw me face and all, you would assume my age to be quite a bit less than the actual, since this has been the usual. I suppose my size, mannerisms and personality are contributing factors.
I come to Xtube only to view and post c omments on pics and vids posted here, to vote on such pics and vids and on members here, and to make friends and communicate with them (or anyone else) by way of email. Therefore, I do not come to Xtube to seek opportunities to engage physically with anyone. However, I do not imply that any of this won"t change someday.
I've sometimes submitted a friendship invitation to another member, even if I suspected that that member would reject it and wouldn't want such friendship status with me. This, I've done, usually only to try to get that member to read my profile. Nevertheless, every time I've done this, I wanted and wished for the friendship regardless, and therefore always wished to be proved wrong about that member when it came to this.
Although there"s an excessive amount written in the turn offs of this profile, I hope you do read this profile with an open mind.
I had been unable to post comments on videos here and to send emails on Xtube. However, it seems that these two problems have been recently remedied. However, another problem, as one can see, pertains to the formatting of my profile page, which is that the paragraphs in the "turn-offs" are far below on the page, in this column.
I do update and modify this profile whenever I feel the need to, and I"ll admit that so far it"s been often and frequent. The most recent update was done on 3-7-2014.
Shapely men or women & nice ass & legs. Buxom or chubby men or women, with big ass (especially when that ass is sticking out & up to the camera, therefore, up in my face), Such ass and body parts made shiny by such things as oil or lotion. big tits, & big legs. A large or small penis (I find that each of these two types of penis has its own particular advantages, attributes, and appeal.) I find other blacks (male or female) most appealing, perhaps because that"s what I"m most accustomed to.
When it comes to lingerie on a female (or male), I Like the types that are sheer & simple in design. Two reasons are that such lingerie tends to show more of the wearer's body & provide easy installation, and easy access to all of the wearer's body parts. One example of such, is a sleeveless shoulder-less sheer flaring babydoll type, consisting of nothing other than one hem around the top, that comfortably surrounds the body under the arms but just above the tits, & one hem around the bottom, very wide & flaring around the hip area. However, I'd like such a lingerie to have a marabou type fur border around the bottom. Such an outfit would be held up by either two thin straps, or elastic in the top hem. I'd Like this even more if combined with such items and aspects as: flashy female jewelry around the neck, wrists, fingers, ankles, toes, & makeup such as eye shadow, lip stick, & false eyelashes.
bare feet, bare soles, and/or bare toes (especially how displayed). Bare feet and especially bare soles made shinny by such things as oil or lotion. painted toenails, I like it even more if the fingernails match. Why even my own feet turn me on a bit. Some have told me of their fear of showing their feet, because they believe that their feet are either unattractive or not well maintained. To this, all I can think of is to suggest soaking them sometimes, because I know soaking works to maintain then well. For me to become turned off at a pare of feet, they would need to be so deformed or damaged that they"re even scary. I even find bunions to be an addition to the sexual appeal of a pare of feet, especially the soles. Also, I like dirty or clean soles.
To figuratively explain my sexual likes and tastes, when it comes to the feet combined with other sexual assets, I compare such to a delicious cake. To me, one or more of a person's sexual assets (butt, legs, tits, etc.) could make his or her vid or pic quite sexy, somewhat like certain ingredients & ways of baking, can add to the tastiness of a cake. Likewise, to me, including the sight of the feet, & in the ways described in this profile, in the vid or pic, would mostly likely be like adding delicious icing to the cake, thus making the cake even more tasty.
When it comes to feet & soles in a vid or pic, I prefer a subtle display of them, as opposed to a display of them that seams intentional. Therefore, I prefer a good display of them, but of which the performer (or model) seems unaware or unconcerned of it. Therefore, although I do like it somewhat, I'm not so much into watching someone licking or sucking on feet or toes. Also because of this, in a scene that has a good show of this body part, I'd like it even more if the performer(s) were engaged in sex, or masturbation, or walking, etc.
Others wearing foot ware that show their feet, toes, and soles, such as, flip flops, and especially the more dressy of such shoes, which are, women"s backless shoes. Of such, I like most, those without any back or heel straps, such as high heeled or kitten heeled slides (sometimes called mules instead of slides), especially the open toe type & the sandal versions of such slides (oh yes!), open toe slides of which the uppers are transparent (oh yes!) & high heeled or kitten heeled marabou pumps. Of all such slides & pumps mentioned in this paragraph, I prefer a low vamp. The lower the vamp, the sexier (well, to me it is), because such a shoe reveals more of the top of the foot, and tends to teeter & dangle on the foot more, which of course causes more of a tendency of the wearer"s bare soles to show. I also find the sight of someone's walking in such shoes, especially from behind, extremely arousing. Also, what's in my turn off about socks, stockings, nylons, and hosiery also applies to all in this paragraph. I find the wearing of such shoes a turn on on both females and males, therefore I hope that both you girls and you guys consider showing off in such women's shoes.
photos & vids that feature such body parts in certain ways. For example, One scene that arouses me much is that of a person sticking out his or her big ass in my face, and especially combined with his or her feet soles in my face. Such a scene is better if his or her thighs and legs are apart to also show the sex organs. An example of such a pose is one of which the person is kneeling low (shoulders down near the knees), while arching his or her back so that his or her ass is sticking up toward the camera, with his or her bare soles & toes also visible in the picture or vid. For all this to show together in the picture or vid, at least a small bit of the surface the performer is on (bed, floor, etc.) must also show, and the camera would need to be of enough distance to include all this. Another pose I find erotic is one of which the person is either sitting in a chair with his or her butt near front edge while reclined onto the chairs back, or laying face up on a flat surface (such as a bed), with legs and thighs spread apart to show his or her sex organs (and perhaps also his or her anus hole), while holding knees up high toward shoulders and acutely bent, with soles up to the camera as if holding them up for the viewers to lick them.
When it come to curling toes either upward (which flexes or stretches the soles) or downward (which wrinkles the soles), I find both erotic, especially curled upward, and I find this upward curling especially erotic when displaying the soles. A very erotic example of this is, flexed soles with the toes curled upward because the toes are pressed against the floor while the performer kneels.
Some good examples of photos and vids that feature some or all of the aspects mentioned in the preceding paragraphs, are those in the favorites section of this profile page. Notice that what you first see in my favorites are the examples I wish to emphasize. Well, I"ve carefully selected each vid & picture set to make this so on my page. This is particularly difficult when it come to the picture sets, because the pic I want displayed on my profile may be somewhat hidden among the set, and therefore only visible when that set is selected for viewing. There are more examples in my favorites, which to see only requires your clicking on either the "more" button in the upper right corner of that favorites square, or clicking on the arrow on the right of that square. For a long time, my favorites section consisted only of males. However, I do desire to have females featured in my favorites section, because I find the desired aspects equally (if not more) arousing on females. For a long time, I couldn"t find a female photo set suitable. That is, until recently.
the wearing of socks, stockings, nylons, or any hosiery and/or any foot ware that hide and cover all the feet and soles.
Ignorance. My definition of ignorance is to either dislike learning or to dislike making the effort to learn, such as, to dislike reading, listening, examining, etc. Obviously it can cause assumption.
Assumption & lack of forethought, and such is the main cause of all the turn offs of 1. thru 4. below.
1. Not trying to learn ones audience (or customers if applicable), In this case the most helpful aspects to learn is, details the audience wants to see in sex pics or sex vids. If one did probe and study this, one would probably find that when it comes to this, not everyone shares the same likes and tastes. From what I"ve seen of pics and vids here, and from other sources, it seems that many who make and post sex pics and/or vids have never given any of this any thought, and therefore, unconsciously assume that everyone"s likes and tastes is exactly alike, and therefore exactly like their own. Such people would tend to leave out (or even omit) aspects of their pics or vids that are of no interest to themselves, again, because they wrongly assume that what doesn"t interest themselves also doesn"t interest anyone else, and such is the most likely cause of other turn offs listed here, such as turn offs 2. and 3. below this paragraph. I"ve found such shortcomings in some of the works of both amateurs and professionals. For examples, many member type porn websites have no provisions for its members to express to all other members and viewers, his or her likes & tastes, unlike Xtube which does. Most other such websites provide nothing more than a way of voting and commenting on a posting there. Most Porn production establishments don't even so much as provide an email address to enable the sending of such feedback to them, neither on their DVDs and such, or on their websites. For such reasons, naturally I tend to think more of those who post pics and/or vids on such a website as Xtube, who also ask on their profiles for such feedback.
2. The inability to see in any part of the video (or any pics of the gallery) in question, certain body parts of the person performing or posing (such as his or her feet or soles), if it"s due to one or more of the turn offs in the next paragraph.
3. One problem is camera distance and/or zoom. For example, camera always positioned or zoomed in too close in all of the video (or gallery if pics) to ever include certain body parts (such as the feet) or the whole body in it, therefore, never zooming out enough, of moving the camera away far enough, to include certain body parts or the whole body. Some in the audience prefer close ups, because they like the emphasis on the performers" sexual organs engaged in the sex. However, others in the audience prefer seeing the whole bodies of the performers while so engaged. Then there are others in the audience who like both. It"s possible to increase the percentage of satisfied viewers of a video or set of pics, by, while making such a video (or gallery), making sure that it accommodates the likes and tastes of all three types of viewers just mentioned. For this, I recommend that the video (or gallery) have an even mixture of close ups with full body shots. The performer or model can be of help in getting his or her body parts in the pic or vid by the way she bends and/or positions her legs and such. Another such problem pertain to camera height & position. For example, camera pointed so much upward that too much of the upper wall is in the photo or video, and consequently not enough of the performer or poser is in it (also, camera pointing too far to the left or right to include all body parts). Another is camera not held or standing high enough above bed height for a good view of the body and details. Another is, items on the bed (blankets, pillows, etc.) that are blocking the view of certain body parts. Another problem could be that the camera"s position ( side view, rear view front view, top view, etc.) could be better, or that for the vid in question, there should be more of a variety of such positions. All of this also applies to videos made by a camera in a fixed zoom and position (In other words, no camera man). For such a fixed camera, one can do two or more vids, of which in some of the videos, the camera is set up for close up viewing. Therefore, of the others, the camera is set up for full body viewing. Another option is to record a vid using two of more fixed cameras together, with the cameras set at different positions from one another, Then use a video editing program to edit the scenes from the various cameras (or various videos) then put the resulting edited scenes together, to form a single video.
4. No pattern of attempted improvements in problems with pics or vids, such as in lighting (as if putting a simple lamp near the camera, or taping or strapping a small battery powered light onto the camera is too clever to think of. Also, when all is positioned whereas light sources, such as sunlight, shine towards the front of the camera.),
5. Not trying to learn how to use a video editing program, nor how to use a photo editing program, to improve a video or photo. Most computers already have such editing programs available in them, and such programs have many features and capabilities (although some have more than others and so forth). I often use such a program to modify a posted pic or vid from Xtube or another web sight, to better see the details in it. For example, I may adjust the shadow and brightness of such a pic or vid. However, I would modify another person"s pic or video for my own viewing only. An example of a good use of a video editing program is to improve and shorten a video by removing idle segments of time that"s in it. I"ve read other members complaints or implications of crooks copying pics or vids of other members, then posting them elsewhere (such as on the crook"s own Xtube profile) and labeling the works as if the crook were the creator of them. One way to solve this problem is to use such a photo or video editing program, to place a written caption onto the picture or video. For this, I recommend that the caption be the true creators user name, and placed where it can not be cropped off, such as on top of a body part of one of the performers in the pic or video. Therefore, even if a crook uses another members video or picture as mentioned, if the true creator has applied this caption method to it, no matter where the crook posts it, the caption would clearly reveal who the true creator of it is. Of any such use of a caption in this way, I"d hope that the caption doe not cover something I like to see, such as tits, butt, pussy, penis, or feet. Also, I recommend the the caption be of a thin font, because it would be less conspicuous, yet just as effective.
6. not trying to learn better techniques to photograph one"s self, such as the use of a camera"s timer to allow time to position ones self in front of the camera. Another technique, is not to use a camera, but to use a web cam with a computer. An external web cam is more flexible and therefore better, and many external web cams are inexpensive, and if the computer is portable, such as a laptop, there are even more advantages. Another technique is to do various poses while video recording yourself, then use a video editing program to take snapshots (also called stills) of certain frames of that video, then use such stills as photos.
7. not providing an alternative way of communication, such as an email address (unless the member has a reason not to provide it).
8. any statement or such that depicts a person as lacking in beauty or appeal, and my main reason is that such a statement would be an opinion and not a fact.
9. Stubborn ignorance about some fetishes such as those in my turn-ons, especially if it causes negative feelings and negative judgement about it and/or refusal to accommodate such likes and tastes. Obviously, such negativity can be caused by a lack of knowledge about it, fear, modesty, etc. Also, it apparently never occurred to such people that everyone who customarily goes to such a web sight as Xtube does have some sort of sexual taste that many people who don"t would think of as strange, and that some such tastes are stranger then others.
10. Negative judgment of members here because of such aspects as, their age, their extent of participation here, equipment, listed turn-ons like some of mine, etc.
11. Assuming that another has nothing to offer in a friendship on this web sight, simply because the person doesn"t have or provide what you seek on this sight.
Yes, of the last two turn offs, if you look for it, you"ll find some here who show this in their profiles in "turn offs". As for extent of participation, such members seem to have forgotten or disregarded the adage of walking in another"s shoes to know his or her situation. and simply realizing that people arrive here for various reasons, and what"s wrong with that?
According to some profiles, some have the notion or idea that members who don"t post pics and/or vids here should not have the benefit of seeing such postings of those who do. My answer to this is that this web sight is for a variety of types of members, and two of these types are: exhibitionists, and those who come to see and enjoy the stuff these exhibitionists post. These exhibitionists are obviously aware that those who see their works on this web sight are not required to post pics or vids, yet they enjoy having such other people see their works regardless, otherwise they wouldn"t be posting their works here. Now would they?
I for example, and as I"ve already stated, come here to view, vote on, and comment on pics or vids here, and make and communicate with friends here. I"m limited to these endeavors, and it is due to my situation (at least this is my present stance and situation). I suppose that it is like sports, of which some are players while others are spectators, and some of the spectators for one or more reasons couldn"t be players in the game even if they wanted to.
My statements in just about all of my profile, pertain only to what I come here for. Therefore, the statements of one who arrives here for different reasons, such as, for example, meeting others for sex, would of course probably be very different. Again I challenge anyone to find fault with any of this. Therefore, since my plans don"t involve any physical engagement, my age should not matter. Also, what may be a turn off (or turn on) to one person, could of course be the opposite to someone else. Again I challenge anyone to find fault with any of this
Another turn off is that there have been those who apparently either won"t read my profile or won"t read it carefully enough, or take too lightly what is said in it. This has sometimes caused problems that pertain mostly to what I visit Xtube for, and my explanation of my limitations described in the two previous paragraphs. However, I"m open to any advice and enlightenment of ideas that can decrease any of the limitations described. That is, provided I feel that you"ve read and understand the limitation described here.
Associate's degree (2 years college)
Yes, and they live at home
Time spent online?
I never log off
I'm a non-smoker
I rarely drink
Kids, How many?
I like all my bodyparts!
5 ft 9 in
Glasses or Contacts
Free from sexually transmitted diseases and tested regularly
Work & Living Environment
$75,001 to $100,000
Live with spouse
American, Cajun, Chinese, Fast food, French, Greek, Japanese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Mongolian, Persian, Pizza, Seafood, Thai, Vegetarian, Vietnameese
I'll try most anything once
Butt Play, Exhibitionism, Gangbangs, Glory Holes, Group Sex, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Naturism/Nudism, Piss Play, Receiving Anal Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Toys
Sex, How often?
At least once a week
Practice Safe Sex
Most Erogenous zones?
Butt, Feet, Lips, Toes
Police/Civilian, Priest/Confessionalist, Teacher/Student
Dirty talk during sex?
I'll do it if my partner enjoys it
Making home videos/pics
I'd consider doing