light skin bro

I can be reached at: natwearitsat@yahoo.com.

I"d bet that if you saw me face and all, you would assume my age to be quite a bit less than the actual, since this has been the usual. I suppose my size, mannerisms and personality are contributing factors.

I come to Xtube only to view and post comments on pics and vids posted here, to vote on such pics and vids and on members here, and to make friends and communicate with them (or anyone else) by way of email. Therefore, I do not come to Xtube to seek opportunities to engage physically with anyone. However, I do not imply that any of this won"t change someday.

I had been unable to post comments on videos here and to send emails on Xtube. However, it seems that these two problems have been recently remedied.

Although there"s an excessive amount written in the turn offs of this profile, I hope you do read this profile with an open mind.

I do update and modify this profile whenever I feel the need to, and I"ll admit that so far it"s been often and frequent. The most recent update was done on 4-6-2013

Turn Ons

Shapely men or women & nice ass & legs. Buxom or chubby men or women, with big ass (especially when that ass is sticking out & up to the camera, therefore, up in my face), Such ass and body parts made shiny by such things as oil or lotion. big tits, & big legs. A large or small penis (I find that each of these two types of penis has its own particular advantages, attributes, and appeal.) I find other blacks (male or female) most appealing, perhaps because that"s what I"m most accustomed to.

bare feet, bare soles, and/or bare toes (especially how displayed). Bare feet and especially bare soles made shinny by such things as oil or lotion. painted toenails, I like it even more if the fingernails match. Why even my own feet turn me on a bit. Some have told me of their fear of showing their feet, because they believe that their feet are either unattractive or not well maintained. To this, all I can think of is to suggest soaking them sometimes, because I know soaking works to maintain then well. I might become turned off to obviously unmaintained feet. However, I"m always turned on by well kept feet and I find such aspects as bunions on well kept feet erotic. Also I find the displaying of the soles quite erotic, no matter how the top of the feet look. Also, I"m not sure which I find more erotic, whether it"s dirty or clean soles.

Others wearing foot ware that show their feet, toes, and soles, such as, flip flops, and especially the more dressy of such shoes, which are, open toe backless shoes. Of such, I like most, open toe high heeled or kitten heeled slides (sometimes called mules instead of slides), the sandal versions of such slides (oh yes!), & high heeled or kitten heeled marabou pumps. Of all such slides & pumps mentioned in this paragraph, I prefer a low vamp. The lower the vamp, the sexier (well, to me it is), because such a shoe reveals more of the top of the foot, and tends to teeter & dangle on the foot more, which of course causes more of a tendency of the wearer"s bare soles to show.

photos & vids that feature such body parts in certain ways, such as, an ass in my face pic or vid that also show the feet or soles. An example of such a pose is one of which the person is kneeling low (shoulders down near the knees), while arching his or her back so that his or her ass is sticking up toward the camera, with his or her bare soles & toes also visible in the picture or vid. I feel that the best effect for such a pose is provided when the performer is performing on the floor, and the camera is on or near the floor (therefore, showing some of the floor) with the performer distanced enough to include his or her feet and butt in the picture or vid. Of course the performance could be done on another surface, such as a bed, of which I think it"s best that the camera be on something other than the bed (such as a chair) and positioned about 3" higher than the bed. Another pose I find erotic is one of which the person is laying on his or her back with legs and thighs apart showing his or her sex organs (and perhaps also his or her anus hole), while holding down each of the shins (lower legs) so that they"re as close as possible to the sides of the body, while parallel to the ground (therefore, bending the knees acutely), and with his or her bare feet soles fully visible & facing the camera (therefore, up in my face).

When it come to curling toes either upward (which flexes or stretches the soles) or downward (which wrinkles the soles), I find both erotic, especially curled upward, and I find this upward curling especially erotic when displaying the soles. A very erotic example of this is, flexed soles with the toes curled upward because the toes are pressed against the floor while the performer kneels.

Some good examples of photos and vids that feature some or all of the aspects mentioned in the preceding paragraphs, are those in the favorites section of this profile page. Notice that what you first see in my favorites are the examples I wish to emphasize. Well, I"ve carefully selected each vid & picture set to make this so on my page. This is particularly difficult when it come to the picture sets, because the pic I want displayed on my profile may be somewhat hidden among the set, and therefore only visible when that set is selected for viewing. There are more examples in my favorites, which to see only requires your clicking on either the "more" button in the upper right corner of that favorites square, or clicking on the arrow on the right of that square. For a long time, my favorites section consisted only of males. However, I do desire to have females featured in my favorites section, because I find the desired aspects equally (if not more) arousing on females. For a long time, I couldn"t find a female photo set suitable. That is, until recently.

Turn Offs

Seeing in a sex pic or vid, the wearing of socks, stockings, and/or any foot ware that hide all the feet and soles of the wearer.

Ignorance. My definition of ignorance is to either dislike learning or to dislike making the effort to learn, such as, to dislike reading, listening, examining, etc. Obviously it can cause assumption.

Assumption & Lack of forethought, and such is the main cause of all the turn offs of 1. thru 4. below. I"ve found all those shortcomings in some of the works of both amateurs and professionals.

1. Not trying to learn ones audience (or customers if applicable), In this case the most helpful aspects to learn is, details the audience wants to see in sex pics or sex vids. If one did probe and study this, one would probably find that when it comes to this, not everyone shares the same likes and tastes. From what I"ve seen of pics and vids here, and from other sources, it seems that many who make and post sex pics and/or vids have never given any of this any thought, and therefore, unconsciously assume that everyone"s likes and tastes is exactly alike, and therefore exactly like their own. Such people will tend to leave out aspects from their pics or vids that don"t interest themselves, again, because they wrongly assume that what doesn"t interest themselves also doesn"t interest anyone else, and such is the most likely cause of other turn offs listed here, such as turn offs 2. and 3.

2. The inability to see in any part of the video (or any pics of the gallery) in question, certain body parts of the person performing or posing (such as his or her feet or soles), if it"s due to one or more of the turn offs in the next paragraph.

3. One problem is camera distance and/or zoom. For example, camera always positioned or zoomed in too close in all of the video (or gallery if pics) to ever include certain body parts (such as the feet) or the whole body in it, therefore, never zooming out enough, of moving the camera away far enough, to include certain body parts or the whole body. Some in the audience prefer close ups, because they like the emphasis on the performers" sexual organs engaged in the sex. However, others in the audience prefer seeing the whole bodies of the performers while so engaged. Then there are others in the audience who like both. It"s possible to increase the percentage of satisfied viewers of a video or set of pics, by, while making such a video (or gallery), making sure that it accommodates the likes and tastes of all three types of viewers just mentioned. For this, I recommend an even mixture of close ups with full body shots. Another such problem pertain to camera height & position. For example, too much of the upper wall in the photo or video, and consequently not enough of the performer or poser (also, camera pointing too far to the left or right to include all body parts). Another is camera at or below bed height thus limiting the view. Another is, items on the bed, (blankets, pillows, etc.) blocking the view of certain body parts. Another problem could be that the camera"s position ( side view, rear view front view, top view, etc.) could be better, or that for the vid in question, there should be more of a variety of such positions. All of this also applies to videos made by a camera in a fixed zoom and position (In other words, no camera man). For such a fixed camera, one can do two or more vids, of which in some of the videos, the camera is set up for close up viewing. Therefore, of the others, the camera is set up for full body viewing. Another option is to record a vid using two of more fixed cameras together, with the cameras set at different positions from one another, Then use a video editing program to edit the scenes from the various cameras (or various videos) then put the resulting edited scenes together, to form a single video.

4. No pattern of attempted improvements in problems with pics or vids, such as in lighting (as if putting a simple lamp near the camera, or taping or strapping a small battery powered light onto the camera is too clever to think of. Also, when all is positioned whereas light sources, such as sunlight, shine towards the front of the camera.),

5. Not trying to learn how to use a video editing program or programs, and the use of photo editing programs as well, and their features, to improve videos or photos. Most computers already have such editing programs available in them. I often use such programs to modify a posted pic or vid from Xtube or another web sight, to better see the details in it. For example, I may adjust the shadow and brightness of such a pic or vid.

6. not trying to learn better techniques to photograph one"s self, such as the use of a camera"s timer to allow time to position ones self in front of the camera. Another technique, is not to use a camera, but to use a web cam with a computer. An external web cam is more flexible and therefore better, and many external web cams are inexpensive, and if the computer is portable, such as a laptop, there are even more advantages. Another technique is to do various poses while video recording yourself, then use a video editing program to take snapshots (also called stills) of certain frames of that video, then use such stills as photos.

7. not providing an alternative way of communication, such as an email address (unless the member has a reason not to provide it).

8. any statement or such that depicts a person as lacking in beauty or appeal, and my main reason is that such a statement would be an opinion and not a fact.

9. Stubborn ignorance about some fetishes such as those in my turn-ons, especially if it causes negative feelings and negative judgement about it and/or refusal to accommodate such likes and tastes. Obviously, such negativity can be caused by a lack of knowledge about it, fear, modesty, etc. Also, it apparently never occurred to such people that everyone involved in such a web sight as Xtube has some sort of sexual taste that might be considered as strange to someone else, most likely to an outsider not involved.

10. Negative judgment of members here because of such aspects as, their age, their extent of participation here, equipment, listed turn-ons like some of mine, etc.

11. Assuming that another has nothing to offer in a friendship on this web sight, simply because the person doesn"t have or provide what you seek on this sight.

Yes, of the last two turn offs, if you look for it, you"ll find some here who show this in their profiles in "turn offs". As for extent of participation, such members seem to have forgotten or disregarded the adage of walking in another"s shoes to know his or her situation. and simply realizing that people arrive here for various reasons, and what"s wrong with that?

According to some profiles, some have the notion or idea that members who don"t post pics and/or vids here should not have the benefit of seeing such postings of those who do. My answer to this is that this web sight is for a variety of types of members, and two of these types are: exhibitionists, and those who come to see and enjoy the stuff these exhibitionists post. These exhibitionists are obviously aware that those who see their works on this web sight are not required to post pics or vids, yet they enjoy having such other people see their works regardless, otherwise they wouldn"t be posting their works here. Now would they?

I for example, and as I"ve already stated, come here to view, vote on, and comment on pics or vids here, and make and communicate with friends here. I"m limited to these endeavors, and it is due to my situation (at least this is my present stance and situation). I suppose that it is like sports, of which some are players while others are spectators, and some of the spectators for one or more reasons couldn"t be players in the game even if they wanted to.

My statements in just about all of my profile, pertain only to what I come here for. Therefore, the statements of one who arrives here for different reasons, such as, for example, meeting others for sex, would of course probably be very different. Again I challenge anyone to find fault with any of this. Therefore, since my plans don"t involve any physical engagement, my age should not matter. Also, what may be a turn off (or turn on) to one person, could of course be the opposite to someone else. Again I challenge anyone to find fault with any of this

Another turn off is that there have been those who apparently either won"t read my profile or won"t read it carefully enough, or take too lightly what is said in it. This has sometimes caused problems that pertain mostly to what I visit Xtube for, and my explanation of my limitations described in the two previous paragraphs. However, I"m open to any advice and enlightenment of ideas that can decrease any of the limitations described. That is, provided I feel that you"ve read and understand the limitation described here.

Horoscope

Cancer

Ethnicity

Black/African descent

Education

Associate's degree (2 years college)

Kids

Yes, and they live at home

Time spent online?

I never log off

Social Orientation

Conservative

Tobacco Consumption

I'm a non-smoker

Alcohol Consumption

I rarely drink

Kids, How many?

1

Best Feature

I like all my bodyparts!

Body Type

Average

Height

5 ft 9 in

Weight

210-219lbs

Eyecolor

Brown

Hair Color

Dark Brown

Hair Length

Very Short

Facial Hair

Moustache

Body Hair

Smooth

Pubic Hair

Unshaved; Normal

Hairy Bodyzones

Chest, Legs

Glasses or Contacts

Glasses

Disabilities

Asthma

Sexual Diseases

Free from sexually transmitted diseases and tested regularly

Career/Job

Technical/Computers/Engineering

Income

$75,001 to $100,000

Living Arrangement

Live with spouse

Food

American, Cajun, Chinese, Fast food, French, Greek, Japanese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Mongolian, Persian, Pizza, Seafood, Thai, Vegetarian, Vietnameese

Sexual Orientation

Bi-Curious

Sexually Daring

I'll try most anything once

Sex, How often?

At least once a week

Practice Safe Sex

Anal Only

Dirty talk during sex?

I'll do it if my partner enjoys it

Making home videos/pics

I'd consider doing