Nice naturally dominant lady
Update â no longer seeking :)
I"m not the domina stereotype but a well rounded, vanilla-appearing woman who needs to put a man in a position of low status within a relationship in order to be turned on. I have never had a vanilla partner, even in my teens. ïI own my own business in the medical field. ïIntelligent, compassionate, healthy, successful, and attractive. Currently dating, looking for straight submissive men with similar attributes and of similar mind.
Bondage, teasing & denial, impact play (spanking and such), psychological domination, and most things that don"t involve blood or stupidity. ïEstim is cool. Ass/prostate stimulation of my partner is exciting, but strap-ons don"t do a lot for me. ïI enjoy being in control and making my partner feel humiliation, fear, or suffering in the context of a safe and supportive relationship. ïCuckolding and chastity are interests. I appreciate physical, mental, and emotional openness and creativity. ï
Blood, piercing, or practices that can potentially damage tissue. ïPain can be fun, but not damage. ïFemale supremacy is stupid, as is any kind of supremacy. ïI don"t need to pretend women in general are better than men to enjoy being superior to my man. I don"t tolerate male bashing, gay bashing, trannie-bashing, or any other kind of prejudiced bullshit.
Not much of a movie watcher, but I like romance, adventure, drama, and intelligent humor. ïNo gore/horror.
Gardening, cooking, golf, bowling, hiking. I like most sports and try to stay active.
Eclectic. ïLove music, play several instruments, have actually earned income in a band (steel drum), and sing pretty well. ïNatural knack for harmonies. ïAppreciate most genres of music.
Tend to prefer nonfiction, science, biography, nature, cooking/nutrition. I like poetry also.
Within the state
Time spent online?
Several hours a day
I'm a non-smoker
I rarely drink
Kids, How many?
About my Partner
I want an alpha male who willingly goes naked on his knees in private and accepts whatever I give him without complaint. He must be healthy in weight, diet, and habits, or willing to be trained to be so. He needs to be emotionally mature and stable, compassionate and affectionate, no drugs/tobacco, social drinker at most. He needs to be financially self sufficient at a minimum. We need to be fairly evenly matched in intelligence, education, vanilla interests, and life goals. I might still want a family, he needs to be OK with that if looking for long term partnership. I"m open to finding a man who already has children as long as he is a great Dad. I cannot be out about BDSM because of my career, he needs to be discreet and look and act vanilla in public.
Age of partner from
Age of partner to
Does size matter?
Size doesn't matter at all
I dont want my partner to smoke
I dont mind if my partner drinks lightly
5 ft 5 in
Shaved or waxed to be neat
Glasses or Contacts
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Arts/Museums, Books/Reading, Camping/Outdoors, Coffee and conversation, Motorcycles, Movies (watching), Music/Concerts, Photography, Playing sports, Shopping, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports
Dancing, Live music/Music, Movies/Film, Theater/Arts
Adventure, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Independent, Romance
Blues, Classic Rock, Classical, Dance & DJ, Folk, Hard Rock & Metal, Indie, Jazz, Pop/Top 40, R&B/Soul, Rock 'n Roll
Biographies, History, Non Fiction, Science/Technology
Watch and Participate
Work & Living Environment
$35,001 to $50,000
American, Cajun, Chinese, French, Greek, Japanese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Mongolian, Persian, Thai, Vegetarian, Vietnameese
Favorite sexual fantasy
Too many to list. I tend to keep fantasies vague and somewhat private, because I do best when ideas come spontaneously in the moment.
I'll try most anything once
Blindfolds, Crossdressing, Dominance/Discipline, Glory Holes, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Handcuffs/Shackles, Humiliation, Massage, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Sadomasochism, Strap-Ons
Afternoon, Mornings, Weekends, Evenings, Noon, Late Night, Weekdays
Sex, How often?
At least once a week
Practice Safe Sex
Most Erogenous zones?
Back, Breasts, Feet, Fingers, Hands, Lips, Neck, Toes
A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A moving vehicle, In the nature, A dressing room, A swimming pool/hot tub, An airplane, My bed, My desk at work, My yard, The beach, Under a waterfall
Dirty talk during sex?
Entirely depends on my mood
Making home videos/pics
I'd consider doing
Bars or pubs, Night clubs
Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators
Blindfolds, Cat tails, Chastity devices, Collar and leash, Gags, Handcuffs/shackles, Paddles, and more!
Porn Movies, Which?
Amateur, Bondage, Cumshots, Fetish
Porn Movies, With?
By myself, With a partner
Porn Movies, How often?
Once or twice a week