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Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a non comprehension in reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love) is love based on conditions.
Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship.The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored relationships. This is a mistrust in reality that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don"t focus on that. It just happens. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust. Real love is unconditional, and self sufficient based, like I recognize that I, and only I, am the creator of my own reality. Therefore, only I, am the generator of my own Happiness. If I truly love myself unconditionally, then the time spent with myself is equal in value to the time spent with my partner.
I love myself as much as I love my partner.
Therefore, the time I spend alone is just as enjoyable as the time spent with my partner. Therefore, it"s okay if I spend less time with my partner.
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Love n light
Sexy girls with pretty feet. Ts/Tv/Tg
Negative attitude, materialism, girls that wear baseball caps all the time, sweats, poor hygiene
High School graduate
Within the country
Time spent online?
A couple times a week
Goofy, Clever, Dry/Sarcastic, Anything
I'm a non-smoker
I'm a light social drinker
About my Partner
6 ft 0 in
Shaved or waxed to be neat
Glasses or Contacts
Free from sexually transmitted diseases and tested regularly
I'll try most anything once
Making Movies, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing
Afternoon, Mornings, Weekends, Evenings, Noon, Late Night, Weekdays
Sex, How often?
Practice Safe Sex
Most Erogenous zones?
Ears, Hands, Lips, Neck
Boss/Employee, Cop/prisoner, Doctor/Nurse, Sergeant/Ensign, I'm not into role playing
A movie theatre, A swimming pool/hot tub, My bed, The beach, Under a waterfall
Dirty talk during sex?
Sometimes I really get into it
Making home videos/pics
Have a few videos of myself
Porn Movies, How often?
Once or twice a week
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