A gentlemanly Cockpig ,a powerful persona and an articulate Archer of Words....a man's man in the fullest sense of the term
Mature(and in MY case this word DOES NOT mean "old,fat and worn-out"...lol...)and I am NOT a "BEAR"- you may fantasize I were your daddy but don't kid yourself- I AM NOT-LOL- ,very masculine,muscular, athletic,and in very good shape.... intelligent,very uninhibited- a recreational, habitual, masturbator since a young age (6 or 7).I was a precociously well-developed boy and from early puberty was regularly approached sexually by females and males alike.By 13 I'd had sex with a woman in her 20's and by by 16 I was doing it with men in their 40's.I enjoyed sex with both genders but gradually grew to prefer men , even when young I took the active part with partners ....a healthy party animal with imagination and without hangups, scrupulous about cleanliness and hygiene( but free of obssesiveness), not looking fo "love" as I have a partner of 30some years in a happy, free of jealousies , relationship with a man who is my equal, both are so-called "tops", cocklovers who prefer oral between us, plenty of "bottoms" out there get it from both of us as a team or individually...I don"t have much "attitude" and prefer the same in others, play games well for sexual diversion... Imaginative, adventurous and LUCID....I know who and what I am, like it and don"t need or care for "bullshit" from myself and certainly not from others.....a gentlemanly sexpig who likes the same in friends and sexual "accomplices"...
My cock and balls are larger than most men's, the balls are unusually large and heavy and they are REAL...I've NEVER used silicone or saline to enlarge anything ...but don't care if others do unless they are deformed , grotesque and ugly. Vacpumping is great fun and is practiced recreationally , not as some regimen for serious enlargement. I like other men with similar advantages who are naturally masculine, well-built and uninhibited sexually. Intelligence and some general education and worldliness is valued in others.Enjoy sessions with other men who are articulate and know what sex talk is about , able to avoid repetitive ,annoying, cliches and invented situations...fantasies are not rejected but I have fulfilled most of mine long ago and moved on to new adventures.To be an Archer of Words one has to be intelligent , honest and never boring -it helps if you are well educated, speak the language well and have a pleasing voice ...a good sense of humor starts with oneself (free of self- deprecation, of course)and is good to have. If a man can't talk smoothly ,with truthfulness , it is best to keep relatively quiet. I value honesty , personal valor and self-assuredness. Arrogance and braggadoccio are not attractive...goodlooks are relative but I value those that have them relative to my personal standards...I do not think looks is the most important quality in a ma or even a woman(though from time immemorial the beauty of a woman has generally, if not always, ranked as a principal quality in this sex....Since I view the males very much as a heterosexual man views a woman- sexual desirability, would I like to have her/him naked in my bed ? The man's or woman's looks sure help to capture my attention, make me want to take a second closer look. It is later that I look for qualities of intelligence , character , etc. and the looks fall back to a lesser level ( But are NEVER entirely not considered!!!) I think women are as attractive as men and have been strongly involved with some, mostly as a younger man,now and again I'll see some woman - invariably of the more attractive sort- and I will feel sexual attraction for her but it is not the "raw" lust I can feel for a male - hey, I've never looked at an exposed pussy and just want to ravage it as I have some man's long and fat cock, sometimes nothing else was THAT important as the fucker's fuck piece - Phallic worship is in me- lol- I have always prefered men in a strictly sexual way .
Lack of personal hygiene, effeminate men, specially if they have all the camouflage of manliness...ie. MUSCLES- which I DO like but they do not make one MORE of a man and if effeminacy is there it comes out sooner rather than later and the image originally presented becomes a form of pathetic deceitfulness....egomaniacs, manipulators are quickly recognized as such and I avoid them... little cocks are not ridiculed but they dont keep my focus...my attention fades fairly fast, boredom sets in and generally(there have been some exceptions)do not make or keep my cock stiff...Same for lack of intellect.I prefer a highly intelligent man and am quickly bored with monosyllabic responders. An intelligent , articulate and communicative partner is the best sex - provided they are reasonably attractive , genuinely masculine , capable of humor - and I am not talking about some joke- cracking clown , ok? Pain and harming my person physically are not acceptable- neither is bondage , captivity or a subservient role with anyone at any time - I do not take barked orders and commands and do not like my head shoved down if you want me to suck your cock - if I like you I will do it on my own , gladly and quite well. Being disrespectful , overly aggressive and underestimating my intelligence-trying to "play" me in any way will not work with me and the last is never tolerated. Big turn-off.The very fat make me recoil. Bad teeth , lack of cleanliness are a sad turn-off .I won't put down those with fetishes for wearing female garments ,shoes, makeup these things are not necessarily ridiculed by me but are a turn-off. This list is getting too long and I don't focus on the negative but Scatology , Blood Sports , true Sadism and the mercifully never encountered Snuff and Necrophilia are totally repulsive and I don't even tolerate being around anyone who likes these . The turnoffs are not reversible- once it happens all interest is gone no matter how attractive that individual may be.
German porn...amateur (non-profit) porn...some Fellini..."The Duelists"..."To Kill a Mockingbird"..."The Year of Living Dangerously" because of Billy Kwon ( Linda Hunt)'s bungalow in the Bamboo Forest, Te Kanawa's beautiful voice singing "Songs of the Auvergne", still haunts my mind ...maybe because a part of me has always liked and lived a little "dangerously"....
Masturbation. and drawing the human body.....and a few other things as well but not as much....my other persona tends a tropical garden, often in the night. I was- still am -although semi-retired - a Landscape Architect. I have enjoyed some recognition for my work and am thankful to have been afforded many splendid opportunities to exercise and develop my talents for this art over the many decades my carrer has spanned... . I used to read, voraciously, until my excellent eyesight got sort of tired... I still read...but only sometimes, certain things...I own( purchased by me since age 13, collected over the years ,fortunate to have had the means to do so, and some, sadly, inherited from my incredible family) thousands of books that I have never catalogued... I stopped counting after more than 10,000- many years ago...) I feel not so much the owner of this collection but caretaker...their beauty dazzles my eyes still and the contents of many awe me and still more so the men and women of talent, genius, that wrote the wondrous tales and preserved for us, shared with the World, the dazzling compilations of knowledge therein contained ...I admit to having a sort of fetish....no, I haven't read them all....maybe a third?....given another 100 years and my eyesight rejuvenated I might read them all....lol....I would have left all this out as who cares when COCK is what this is about.....but it is done, and I enjoyed the writing of it as it made me focus on what is, perhaps the better aspect of me as a human.
My great aunt improvising and- to me- often improving- classical pieces she had partially forgotten how to play....in a dusty, old, grand piano, in an empty, huge, room with floor to ceiling windows she kept open in nearly all weather, overlooking her jungle-forest of an ancient garden....during the day small birds would fly in and hop about the time worn ,black and white checkered, marble floor .... at night an occasional, swift- flying , bat would flit close to the high ceiling, its paint peeling, back and forth until,eventually, they'd make their way back out to the dark , shadowy , garden......From her I know who Eric Satie was...know his hypnotic music..she hadn"t forgotten how to play his pieces...no improvising there ....so long ago and so far away it might as well have been in another, past, lifetime...
see the preceding ....Thomas Mann"s "The Magic Mountain"? among very many others..it comes to mind as I read it during a..well... "Idyllic" ,remarkable, period of my life, somewhere between "boy" and "man" when I experienced the beginnings of a "Great Love"...that it lasted for so long still amazes me and makes me grateful to have received this greatest of all gifts at such a young age and even more grateful that, somehow, I had it in me to recognize what was given , able to respond correctly , with body and soul...."Love in the Time of Cholera" for its characters , circumstances, setting ,reminded me of my own family whose strangely beautiful, improbable, romantic, story , rivals Mr. Gabriel Garcia Marquez's novel... "To Kill a Mockingbird"..... Edward Swift's " Splendora"......The One Thousand and One Nights.... Waugh's "Brideshead Revisited"....E.M. Forster's obscure novel "Maurice", a gay love story and a very good novel , way ahead of its time and as good -or better- than the better-known "Passage to India"... Hudson's "Green Mansions " and "The Purple Land" ....Whitman's "Walden"...Hernan Cortez's "The Conquest of Mexico"-which would not have been possible without the Otomi Princess, Malinche's , outstanding help- hey , the man did right by this Indian maiden for he made her his legitimate wife , took her back to Spain to be the mother of his children - their descendants numerous in the present day.......I can't help but wonder how many will read this far? I am enjoying writing it so who cares who reads it and who doesn't? Uh?
Not that I know of
Time spent online?
A couple times a week
English, French/Francais, Spanish/Espanol
I'm a light social smoker
I'm a light social drinker
About my Partner
Laurent, Andy and Colston....lol....1 on 1 and all toguether...that was always fine with me but not for them, at least not indefinitely, on a regular basis (despite the fact they all liked one another well enough for me to enjoy watching)...It was hard for me to choose...I would have had to draw "straws"..."Fate", or the way Life unfolds, took care of things and it is Laurent who I still live with...I am content and he doesn"t seem to mind ...lol..."faithful"? NO..."loyal"? VERY....lol....the first is nice if it comes naturally and it rarely does among males and it isn"t essential but "LOYALTY" is....."HONESTY" is ,probably, a necessary adjunct....sexual desirability seems to help but seems to become less important with time...ours lasted what seems to be an unusually long time, despite very many partners of considerable attractiveness shared and or enjoyed individually L. and I (both so called "tops"...lol...) still do nicely- not by default, by choice....amazing ....lol...
Male, Gay-Couple, Group
Age of partner from
Age of partner to
it depends on condition
Erotic Chat/Email/Phone Fantasies, 1-on-1 sex, Group sex(3 or more), Bondage & Discipline, Exhibitionism & Voyeurism, Miscellaneous Fetishes
Partners genitals should be
Hairy, Average, Trimmed to be neat, Completely shaved
Does size matter?
What he does with it is what matters
I dont mind if my partner smokes lightly
I dont mind if my partner drinks lightly
6 ft 0 in
Glasses or Contacts
HIV/AIDS negative and tested regularly
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