Beefy, built, hunky package
5-5, 160, great chest,ïhuge arms, big legs, perky ass, moderately hairy, 51 and young @ heart. Very friendly, but shy on first meet. Once I relax, I am VERY open, honest & forth-cumming! Easy-going, intelligent, romantic, affectionate, communicative, expressive. I LUV romance & sex--they R different, altho best when they cum together!!!--but am shy 2 initiate but it only takes a smile, a wink, a touch, a hug, a kiss, a whispered flirtation, o casual, teasing flash to let me know u r in the mood & wanting my devoted attentions! But I also like being seduced & coaxed & encouraged. I am VERY independent, so IF U want me 2 do something, ASK me!!! I will almost ALWAYS want to, but IF U tell me what to do, I will becum obstinatant & resistant on "priciple"; forwarned is forearmed...! I"m VERY easy 2 engage & seduce to UR wants as long as I feel I have the choice to refuse.
guys w confidence, assertive, take-charge but friendly, caring guys, handome, (clean-cut-punkish "bad boi" looks) great smile, intoxicating eyes, in-shape, nicely hung, lo-hangers, uncut all HUGE bonuses as well as Mediterranean, dark looks, eyes & hair all pluses, hairy lower portions HUGE turn-on! My nipples r my weakness, extended, GENTLE stimulation will put me over the top w lust & desire!
Conceit, self-centered, TOP-centered (as in, "U should just be happy I am willing 2 TOP u...!" I don"t think so! It is just as mucha privilege 4 u 2 be sliding up inside of me!). Bigotry, homophobia, obsession!!! w the labels of "macho" & "butch"! or conservative political beliefs.
Comedies, romantic comedies, classics, period pieces, fantasy.
The GYM!!! the web, friends, cards, television, movies & hanging out.
Most...except rap, hip-hop, heavy metal...
classics, novels, psychological novels, historical novels, biographies, period studies, gay fiction, humor.
BA/BS (4 years college)
Time spent online?
An hour or so a day
Goofy, Clever, Obscure, Dry/Sarcastic
I'm a non-smoker
I'm a light social drinker
About my Partner
Out-going & likes taking the lead but is not controlling or obsessive about having his own way, romantic, sensitive, communicative, honest, open, easy-going, affectionate, has no problems w/ intimacy, self-expression, understands the benefits of compromise & negotiation. Knows what he wants & has no trouble pursuing his wants but also respects the differences and uniqueness of others & respects diversity. Is self-aware & grounded, devoted, has a sense of adventure but is also very happy being quiet @ home w/ his partner (family). Fit, takes care of himself, looks out for others, is resepctful of other beliefs, values, experiences and ways of thinking/seeing things. Naturally smooth is fine, but like a man w/ some hair in the typical locations--chest, 4-arms, haunches, ass, ass-crack!!! pits, belly, treasure trail, bush--not carpetting, but nice & furry is definitely sexy!!! Like all races, Latinos, Blatinos, blacks, Middle-Eastern/Mediterranean/Arabic are especially sexy! Most guys I have been w/ are cut but find guys w/ hoodies XXXtremely arousing & attractive (was docked once & blew my mind!!! Grrr!!) Bedroom eyes, attractive, stunning, "preppy", "classic", "badboi", even edgy looking w/ a spark of harmless mischief all BIG bonuses, the face ALWAYS melts me & the eyes are the most arresting aspect of any man"s face! Tatts & piercings can be VERY sexy!!! Natural scent (altho cologne 4 formal occassions can be VERY romantic, but when I crawl into bed, I want to get lost in the smell of his "man-parts", musky nooks, crooks, cracks & crannies!!! More a 1-on-1 guy, but have been "married" 4 12 years in the past, so am open to 3-ways & more under the right circumstances & definitely enjoy adventure but not as quick 2 initiate. Gangbangs & DP"s sound VERY interesting, so willing to consider w/ my partner under clear parameters.
Male, Gay-Couple, Group
Age of partner from
Age of partner to
Erotic Chat/Email/Phone Fantasies, 1-on-1 sex, Group sex(3 or more), Exhibitionism & Voyeurism, Miscellaneous Fetishes
Whole package matters more
Partners genitals should be
Hairy, Average, Trimmed to be neat
Does size matter?
What he does with it is what matters
I dont want my partner to smoke, I dont mind if my partner smokes lightly
I dont mind if my partner drinks lightly
I like all my bodyparts!
5 ft 5 in
Unshaved and bushy
Arms, Buns, Chest, Treasure trail, Pits, Tummy, Legs, Everywhere
Body Piercings, Tattoos
HSV Type II (Genital Herpes), HIV/AIDS positive, Hepatitis A/B positive, Genital warts
Favorite sexual fantasy
Okay, disclosure time: I like lots of things, sometimes, always depends on the moment, situation, my partner"s charms, etc. I LUV sex, but am content w/ @ least once or twice a week, however, my partner can entice & arouse me 2 want it MUCH more often & it takes VERY little 2 put me in the mood & make me horny 2 please my man! I prefer night-time sex but have never had a specific time that I would NOT consider or have not enjoyed! I enjoy some "kinks" but do not require them EVER & could get along w/ just "vanilla" romance & intimacy. However, a man w/ a strong sense of adventure can inspire me into almost anything w/ the right flirtations, suggestions & teasing enticements!!! I like lt bondage--for the erotic appeal of either of us being "@ the mercy of the other", but only because we trust each other implicitely & KNOW that neither would ever take advantage of the moment or enjoy the power of control over the thrill of arousing XXXtreme lust 2 please...I LUV doing things to make my man happy but would NOT like him getting off on his power over me, but rather enjoys my total devotion & commitment to him that makes me WANT to take care of his wants, needs & desires! I"m a romantic first & then a man that enjoys trying new things & exploring new adventures w/ a man that likes to stretch my boundaries but also luvs that I have my limits & respects me too much to ever cross that line! I have 5 dildos & have only used a couple, 1 time each, just prefer the real flesh & blood, pulsating dick of a partner over a toy, but have very much enjoyed dildoing my partner when he asked & CUMpletely got into watching him moan, groan & writhe as I teased & pleasured his hole as long as he liked! Have plenty of leather wear, altho seldom wear any anymore, mostly just a t- or wife-beater & cargo shorts or jeans kind of guy. I think sex is essential & very important to fully embracing ALL aspects of our humanity, however, I am a bit shy @ expressing myself w/ my partner until I am sure he is ready & open--a smile, a kiss, a wink, a hug, a flash, a flat outright suggestion/request...ALL works 2 let me know my advances & interest in ravaging my man will be welCUM!!! But also LUV following his lead & responding to his moves & indications & am NOT shy once engaged about getting lost in the moment! LUV foreplay--from morning reminder calls that u r thinking about me...to flirty comments, to smiles, touches, kisses, LUV kissing, teasing my man"s nips, eating his butt, sucking his nads, his cock--flaccid & hard--& getting fuk"d! as well as the afterglow of cuddling/snuggling up & remaining close afterwards!!!
I'll try most anything once
Butt Play, Exhibitionism, Gangbangs, Giving Oral Sex, Handcuffs/Shackles, Leather, Mutual Masturbation, Piss Play, Receiving Anal Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Threesomes, Toys
Afternoon, Mornings, Weekends, Evenings, Noon, Late Night, Weekdays
Sex, How often?
At least once a week
Most Erogenous zones?
Belly, Butt, Ears, Lips, Neck, Nipples
Boss/Employee, Doctor/Patient, Knight/Damsel in Distress, Priest/Confessionalist, Prisoner/Prisoner, Prostitute/Client, I'm not into role playing
A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A moving vehicle, In the nature, A rollercoaster, A dressing room, A swimming pool/hot tub, An airplane, My bed, My desk at work, My yard, The beach, Under a waterfall
Dirty talk during sex?
Sometimes I really get into it
Making home videos/pics
I'd consider doing
Bars or pubs
Willing to experiment
Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Swings
Food for play
Ice, Whipped cream
Porn Movies, Which?
Amateur, Anal, Bondage, Cumshots, Interracial, Fetish, Gay, Hard, Rimming
Porn Movies, With?
Porn Movies, How often?