sub poz btm for thick, Blk, Bear
OK, I have this unconscious attraction to thick men. Dunno why. When I'm thinking of sex, that is one of the things that moves me. As does maturity, kindness, and intelligence - though those are not so easy to spot (or - why aren't they?).
Anyway, I'm just starting a relationship so those deeper qualities are on my mind. But the easier easily visible markers of weight, color, age sort of jump out at me. But I'm starting to find that beyond those visible things - when the sex is over - I'm seeking - or have discovered that I'm comforted most by the qualities of emotional maturity and emotional stability, intelligence, kindness and humor -to name a few. My new boyfriend seems to have these qualities - or I should say, because he has those qualities, he's my new boyfriend.
But when I'm here, it's more to feed my "sexual" appetite" or provide excitement/stimulation. So, I return to thickness, age, color as qualities that usually do it for me.
I'm NOT a size queen - and in fact anything over 9" is a little scary - so no thank you for the really big ones.
However, thickness again - thick or heavy dicks - almost unconsciously hypnotize me. AND I'm drawn to meaty/SOFT dicks too. Love to see 'em soft. (Maybe because it signals that it's time for me to "get to work"...)
Other labels that tend to compel me are: bears, hairy, men of color. Though even all or any of those markers are no guarantee by themselves.
ATTITUDE.: A man in charge - confident, assured, masterful trumps ANY PHYSICAL qualities. I find DOMINANCE very sexy (being submissive myself)
I'm not too concerned about "shared interests/hobbies - as when it comes down to it, we should be able to stand on our own. Somewhere, we will find some common ground - once we establish that we can "get along"
About my Partner
I like all my bodyparts!
5 ft 11 in
Unshaved and bushy
Buns, Chest, Legs