Do I wanna be a porn star?
I"m just a quirky, fun loving, slightly neurotic, nerdy guy looking for new friends. I"m a comic book and sci-fi loving writer, yet can"t fill out these things out if my life depended on it.
I"m not gay. I like girls too. I"m not Bisexual. I like and have dated boys who don"t have typical male body parts. I like girls who don"t either. I don"t believe in the gender binary. I"m definitely not straight.
I"ve been processing my Queerness lately. A lot.
My Queer identity is something that I don"t really talk about in detail with very many people. What most people know is that I date boys, mostly boys. Some would peg me as gay. The truth is, I don"t really identify as such. I date a wide variety of people. I don"t really talk about that aspect of my sexuality because many people, particularly heterosexuals and gay men, are uncomfortable with the idea of my sexual fluidity. There"s the whole stereotype that sexually fluid people are promiscuous and duplicitous; that they are just confused or going through a phase. I don"t really feel that I"m going through a phase. All relationships are phases,really. And I have had a wide variety of them.
I claim a Queer identity and take people on a case-by-case basis.
By the way, I am a textbook INFP
Intelligence, open mindedness, a strong will.
I have a BA in English and currently do consultation and research
with an Aboriginal organization to promote literacy. I go to as
many comic book/sci-fi/horror conventions as I can. I also spend a
lot of time cuddling with my kitty, Panda.
I read and write a lot. I also love walking everywhere in this
I have devoted 4 years of my life to writing a novel. It has
occurred to me that it may never be finished; It"s constantly
evolving. I"m also writing an anthology of short fiction.
I have stellar one-man dance parties.
I have a very eclectic taste in music. I have recently discovered that dub step or anything electronic is a lot of fun. Pop is fun too like Robyn, Tegan and Sara, Mumford and Sons, Crystal Castles. But if I crave substance then Tool, Portishead, Ohbijou, Death Cab is where I usually go.
I have a lot of favourites, but they"re constantly changing. I read a lot, and grew up loving comic books. The series Fables is by far the best comic series I have ever read. I also love Little Nemo in Slumberland and The Dark Knight era of Batman. In terms of literature my favourite is Beloved by Toni Morrison. This book changed the way I think about literature, gender, and race distinction. I tend to lean more toward satire when I choose to read recreationally. I love anything by Kurt Vonneghut. Slaughterhouse Five or Mother Night are amazing novels. I also enjoy science fiction quite a bit.
I'm a non-smoker
I'm a light social drinker
About my Partner
Someone with a good sense of humour. Someone open minded. Someone that will never take me for granted.
Age of partner from
Age of partner to
Erotic Chat/Email/Phone Fantasies, 1-on-1 sex, Other "Alternative" Activities
Whole package matters more
Partners genitals should be
Average, Trimmed to be neat, Completely shaved
Does size matter?
Size doesn't matter at all
I dont want my partner to smoke, I dont mind if my partner smokes lightly
I dont mind if my partner drinks lightly, I want my partner to drink lightly
5 ft 7 in
Shaved or waxed to be neat
Glasses or Contacts
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Arts/Museums, Board games, Books/Reading, Camping/Outdoors, Coffee and conversation, Healthy living, Movies (making), Movies (watching), Music/Concerts, Photography, Politics, Shopping, Television (watching), Travel/Sightseeing
Comics/Anime, Dancing, Live music/Music, Movies/Film, Symphony/Opera, T.V./Videos/DVDs, Theater/Arts, Wine tasting
Arts & Entertainment, Documentary/Learning, Dramas, Music Channels, News, Sci-Fi, Sit-coms
Classics, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Fantasy, Film-Noir, Horror, Independent, Mystery, Porn, Science Fiction, Thrillers
Alternative Rock, Classic Rock, Classical, Electronic/Techno/House, Hard Rock & Metal, Indie, Industrial, Miscellaneous, New Age, Punk, Rock 'n Roll
Best Sellers, Biographies, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Magazines, Mystery, Non Fiction, Sci-Fi, Thrillers
Work & Living Environment
Live with roommate(s)
Chinese, French, Greek, Japanese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Mongolian, Persian, Seafood, Thai, Vegetarian, Vietnameese
I'll try most anything once
Group Sex, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Receiving Anal Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Strap-Ons, Threesomes, Toys
Sex, How often?
A few times a month
Practice Safe Sex
Most Erogenous zones?
Back, Butt, Ears, Inner thigh, Neck, Nipples
Dirty talk during sex?
Entirely depends on my mood
Making home videos/pics
Have a few pics of myself