the noble art of surrendering
so, yes. this is me. i write in lower case. and use a lot of periods. is it not annoying?
cleverness. beards. or not.
arrogance. and stalkiness.
french nouvelle vague cinema. and michael haneke.
being a snob. pretend.
latin american independent scene and french indie.
thomas mann, elfriede jelinek, thomas bernhard, albert camus, marguerite duras, irene nemirovsky, umberto eco, douglas coupland, tom sharpe, gore vidal.
I don't believe in astrology
Time spent online?
Several hours a day
English, Dutch/Nederlands, French/Francais, German/Deutsch, Italian/Italiano, Norwegian/Norsk, Swedish/Svenska
Campy (Cheesy), Clever, Obscure, Dry/Sarcastic
I'm a non-smoker
I rarely drink
About my Partner
i am looking for someone to discuss sir edward gibbon. or miranda hart.
Age of partner from
Age of partner to
1-on-1 sex, Exhibitionism & Voyeurism
Whole package matters more
Partners genitals should be
Does size matter?
Average is all I need!
I dont want my partner to smoke
I dont mind if my partner drinks lightly
Few extra pounds
5 ft 9 in
Unshaved and bushy
Glasses or Contacts
HIV/AIDS negative and tested regularly, Free from sexually transmitted diseases and tested regularly
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Arts & Entertainment, Cartoons, Dramas, Movie Channels, News, Reality Shows, Sit-coms, Sports
Classics, Documentary, Drama, Film-Noir, Independent, Porn
Alternative Rock, Classical, Electronic/Techno/House, Folk, Indie, Jazz
Fiction, Mystery, Non Fiction
Watch and Participate
Work & Living Environment
Live with roommate(s)
I'm sexually shy
Butt Play, Exhibitionism, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Making Movies, Massage, Mutual Masturbation, Naturism/Nudism, Public sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing
Sex, How often?
Not a big part
Practice Safe Sex
Most Erogenous zones?
Butt, Ears, Inner thigh, Neck
Boss/Employee, Cop/prisoner, Doctor/Patient, Knight/Damsel in Distress, Priest/Confessionalist, Prisoner/Prisoner, Prostitute/Client, Trainer/Dog, I'm not into role playing
In the nature, A dressing room, My bed, My yard, The beach
Dirty talk during sex?
Entirely depends on my mood
Making home videos/pics
Haven't found a parter do it with yet
Bars or pubs
dougcoup - Male , 31
Kent, United Kingdom
Member for 4 years
Sexual orientation: Gay