perpetually horny cub in VA
I"m not looking for anything on here except some hot pics/vids to enjoy. Porn keeps me from being a total horndog and groping my boyfriend every second I"m with him. We"ve been together over 5 years, and he means a great deal to me. He is wonderful and fun and basically exactly what I need in my life. I have no interest in replacing him or cheating on him. I may have dirty thoughts, but I'm an adult in a committed relationship and won't be acting on them.
I"m not interested in the pay "amateur" vids here, and am not going to accept friend requests from those profiles anymore. Sorry, but I don"t want that stuff cluttering up the "friends videos" and "friends photos" lists I look at. Really not my thing./>
average-looking guys, furry guys (cubs and otters), glasses, ginger guys, dorks/nerds, cute butts, aggressive bottoms, barebacking monogamists, sweaty pits, feet. Guys who are genuine, know who they are, and are honest. (And while I don't have an FTM fetish or anything, there happen to be some smokin' hot FTM dudes on xtube. Being trans is not an drawback.)I am very much an ass man: nothing turns me on quite like a nice furry butt--in person, pics, or videos. So yeah, I basically browse porn like some sort of predatory total top: my loads get blown at hairy bottom boys showing off the goods. (In person, I"m a versatile bottom.) I LOVE getting comments on my pics/videos. Huge turn-on to know somebody thought they were hot. If you comment, you make my cock hard. Simple as that.
Vanity, camp or affected effeminacy (if you"re genuinely effeminate, that"s great; but it you"re acting that way b/c it"s "cool" or "gay" then I"m likely to find you annoying), willful ignorance, immaturity, conflating sexual position and social role. Drag queens. Scat. Pain. Cruelty and thoughtlessness. Lack of empathy. Republicans and judgmental busybodies. Bullies. Bigots. Catholic priests. Conspicuous consumption. Wearing real fur made from dead animals (I"m fine with dudes in fursuits, that"s different). Notice that these turn-offs are more about personality and values than appearance.
Domination, humiliation, non-consensual sex. My best friend killed himself partly as a consequence of having been repeatedly raped over 15 years before, and struggling to make peace with how turning out to be gay did not somehow validate what his abuser did to him. Re-enactments of that dynamic, even in the context of "kink", just disgust me. I'm sorry, but something's wrong with you if you get off on treating someone else badly. Go get therapy and learn how not to be an asshole. And If you find yourself getting off on being humiliated, hurt, disrespected, then PLEASE get yourself some therapy (or al-anon) and try to figure out why you're attracted to toxic people.
As I get older, I am finding film less engaging, less interesting, less meaningful than I used to. I go when someone wants me to go with them, otherwise I really don't care. Frankly, depression means I don't have the attention span to enjoy most films.
Running (I run about 30 miles a week). Love old cars (I have 2 old Volvo wagons), history, organic gardening, architecture, phonographs and vintage records. I like old technology generally (rotary phones, vintage electric fans, steam locomotives, analog wristwatches, water mills, 1920"s & 1930"s toasters).
It is complicated. I collect 78"s, specializing in 20"s dance music, early country/hillbilly, and Jewish music. I also enjoy a wide array of classical music, mainly baroque, classical, and early romantic eras. I tend to like artists with distinctive styles: Bob Dylan, Patti Smith, Glenn Gould, Leonard Cohen, that kind of thing.
novels by Margaret Atwood, JRR Tolkien, EL Doctorow, poems of Philip Larkin, Margaret Atwood, Robert Lowell, Anna Akhmatova, John Berryman. Also enjoy history, and have a total hard-on for the crazy political and religious clusterfuck that was the 17th century Anglo-American portion of the Atlantic world.
Some grad school
Clever, Obscure, Dry/Sarcastic
I'm a non-smoker
About my Partner
6 ft 1 in
Arms, Chest, Pits, Tummy
Glasses or Contacts
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Antiques/Collectibles, Arts/Museums, Board games, Books/Reading, Cars, Coffee and conversation, Collecting, Cooking, Gardening/Landscaping, Healthy living, Music/Concerts, Politics
Live music/Music, Symphony/Opera, T.V./Videos/DVDs
Arts & Entertainment, Cartoons, Documentary/Learning, News, Sci-Fi, Stand Up Comedy
Blues, Classic Rock, Classical, Country, Folk, International, Jazz, Opera, Punk, Rock 'n Roll
Biographies, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Mystery, Non Fiction, Sci-Fi
Work & Living Environment
American, Cajun, Chinese, French, Greek, Japanese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Persian, Pizza, Seafood, Thai, Vegetarian, Vietnameese
Butt Play, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Massage, Mutual Masturbation, Receiving Anal Sex, Toys
Afternoon, Mornings, Weekends, Evenings, Noon, Late Night, Weekdays
Most Erogenous zones?
Back, Belly, Butt, Inner thigh
Dirty talk during sex?
I'll do it if my partner enjoys it
Making home videos/pics
Have a few videos of myself
Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators
Food for play
Carrots, Cucumbers, Whipped cream
Porn Movies, Which?
Amateur, Anal, Gay
Porn Movies, With?
By myself, Wish my partner would watch with me, With a partner
Porn Movies, How often?