Hello gentlemen and gentlebears, how are you? I'm a 30 year old bear/cub/chubby (I really hate these classifications; I never get the hang of them) who is here to meet interesting new guys. Not here for a relationship; I had a pretty long one which was very happy until it had to end, as most things in this world do, and now I've no energy or desire to start a new one. Chats, friendship, sex... these are all on the table however. Don't be shy, say hello :)
I have rather wide taste in guys, but the one quality I look for is masculinity. I have a preference for chubby or muscular guys, but the real important factors are not being effeminate or heavy smokers. Facial and body hair are always an appreciated bonus :)
Effeminate guys and heavy smokers
A bit of everything: rock, dance, some pop...
Avid Terry Pratchett fan
BA/BS (4 years college)
Time spent online?
Several hours a day
English, French/Francais, Italian/Italiano
I'm a non-smoker
I'm a light social drinker
About my Partner
Some guidelines on what I look for
Masculine guys; the rest are just details.
Male, Gay-Couple, Group
Age of partner from
Age of partner to
Erotic Chat/Email/Phone Fantasies, 1-on-1 sex, Discreet Relationship, Group sex(3 or more)
Whole package matters more
Partners genitals should be
Hairy, Average, Trimmed to be neat
Does size matter?
As long as it's long I'm happy
I dont want my partner to smoke, I dont mind if my partner smokes lightly
I dont mind if my partner drinks lightly
5 ft 9 in
Sideburns, Moustache, Goatee
Buns, Chest, Treasure trail, Pits, Tummy, Legs
Glasses or Contacts
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Arts/Museums, Board games, Books/Reading, Coffee and conversation, Computer Games, Cooking, Fishing/Hunting, Movies (watching), Music/Concerts, Painting, Photography, Playing cards, Television (watching)
Computer games, Live music/Music, Movies/Film, T.V./Videos/DVDs, Theater/Arts
Arts & Entertainment, Cartoons, Documentary/Learning, Dramas, Music Channels, Movie Channels, Sit-coms, Stand Up Comedy
Action, Adventure, Animation, Classics, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Fantasy, Horror, Independent, Musicals, Mystery, Porn, Romance, Thrillers
Alternative Rock, Broadway & Vocalists, Classic Rock, Dance & DJ, Hard Rock & Metal, Miscellaneous, New Age, Opera, Pop/Top 40, Punk, Rock 'n Roll, Soundtracks
Best Sellers, Erotica, Fantasy, Fiction, Horror, Mystery, Non Fiction, Thrillers
Work & Living Environment
Live with pets
American, Fast food, French, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Mongolian, Pizza, Vegetarian
Favorite sexual fantasy
As much as I love an intense 1-on-1, I am turned on by the idea of having more than one partner at one go. I have some experience in that area and am keen for more. Also love exotic men: latin, black... you name it!
I'll try most anything once
Gangbangs, Glory Holes, Group Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Making Movies, Massage, Naturism/Nudism, Public sex, Receiving Anal Sex, Threesomes
Afternoon, Mornings, Weekends, Evenings, Noon, Late Night, Weekdays
Sex, How often?
At least once a week
Practice Safe Sex
Most Erogenous zones?
Back, Ears, Neck, Nipples
A dark back alley, A movie theatre, In the nature, A swimming pool/hot tub, An airplane, My bed, The beach
Dirty talk during sex?
I'll do it if my partner enjoys it
Making home videos/pics
Have a few pics of myself
Bars or pubs, Night clubs, Swinging clubs, Adult theatres, Swinging, Strip clubs
Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators
Food for play
Chocolate sauce, Grapes, Ice cream, Strawberries, Whipped cream
Not into bondage
Porn Movies, Which?
Amateur, Anal, Cumshots, Interracial, Gay, Gonzo, Hard
Porn Movies, With?
Porn Movies, How often?