February2014 - Hello CHICAGO and world. Definitely UP for hot chat either here or on Yahoo.
I know none of you will read this entire list. Hell, if it were on someone else"s profile, I probably would not read the whole thing either. haha. But that is all good. I am really just writing it for my own erotic, horny sake. If you happen to like it, very cool. If not, no loss.
Hi. My name is Jay and I'm a sex-/porn-aholic. (Group response, ala AA: "Hi, Jay.") No, seriously, I am. I rarely stop thinking about sex and porn. I could have sex with my bf or watch porn and jack off all day long, if given the chance. (In fact, there have been countless number of times that I have!) And I am always checking out guys" crotches, imagining what they"re "packing" and what they can do with it. Large or small, I am fascinated by them all!
I enjoy chatting (Sorry, but NO cam!) on Yahoo Messenger. Hit me up for my screen name, but ONLY if you have pics &/or videos of YOU on here.
An important thing to know about me is that I like a LOT of different sex scenes and a lot of different body types. I used to think I had a certain type to whom I was attracted, but as I got older, I realized diversity is a great thing! Within reason (see my turn-offs list), it is all dependent upon what my sex partners enjoy doing.
I respectfully must say that if you want to friend me, you MUST have at least some pictures, specifically of yourself. (Some = more than 3!, and they do not have to be face shots.)
--->I am a completely versatile (but usually a top/dom), masculine guy who LOVES having and watching sex. (Of course, HAVING sex is best!!! haha) I have a broad variety of sexual turn-ons.
I am totally fascinated looking at cocks, both soft and hard, cut or uncut. Also, asses on cute guys. Hairy or smooth. I cannot seem to get enough of them!
I now am in a totally monogamous, 5+year committed relationship with an absolutely WONDERFUL younger Chinese guy. It took me years to find my Mr. Right, but it was well worth the wait!!!
We both are HIV-negative and very much plan to stay that way by being monogamous. With that said, we only fuck bareback...and LOVE it!!
I am just here to view pics and videos and to make some online friends with whom I have mutual interests for sex chat.
This is the main list, but there is more:
--->My biggest turn-on is what my sex partner likes to do (based on this list).
--->Verbal and nasty talk.
--->Aggressive bottoms and tops.
--->Guys between 18 and 35 y/o, in general.
--->Smooth to moderately hairy. Guys with smooth torso and hairy asses and legs are a HUGE turn on!!
--->Nice, slender, well-manicured fingers.
--->Cocks, cut or uncut, small to XXL.
--->Sweet, tight fuckholes, smooth or hairy.
--->Arm pits, preferably hairy, but shaved is good, too.
--->Verbal/dirty talk. (Yeah, I said that already. LOL)
--->Rape role play. (NO PAIN!!!)
--->Tearing/ripping off clothes.
--->Speedos. Sports gear. Jocks.
--->Zentai, lycra, spandex.
--->Crossdressers that could pass for female.
--->Hairy, thin crossdressers.
--->Athletic/jock guys that like to crossdress, or at least wear panties.
--->...and a LOT more...
I am completely versatile, but I am most often the top/dominant one in our relationship. Everything I like doing as a top, I also like having it done to me when I bottom.
---> I REPEAT: My biggest turn on is what my partner likes to do!!! Communication in sex is very important. If both people are not having a good time pleasing each other, what is the point!?!
---> I love boy/man scent. Armpits, yes...especially really hairy ones!!! I once had a friend who I could make cum without touching himself just by worshiping his hairy pits. You should have heard him scream when I would cum in his pits, then lick them clean. (God knows the neighbors heard him! LOL)
-----------Also, I love the smell of the cock/ass/pubic area after having sex.
I hold off taking a shower for as long as I can after sex. For instance...Let"s say my boy and I have sex sometime early on a Saturday. I may hold off taking a shower until Sunday night. That aging, ripening smell of both our cum and my boy"s pussy juices all over my cock and pubic area, or wherever else, drives me insane. From the moment I wake up on Sunday, I am constantly rubbing my hand around my cock and ass hole and savoring that sweet scent on my fingers.
After having fucked my partner the night before, leaving my jizz inside and all around his cunt, there's nothing like waking up to inhale that ripening smell all over his ass. To me, it is absolute intoxication!
---> I like skinny/slender/athletic guys on the smoothish side. Smooth upper body and hairy lower body is very cool!!! I am definitely NOT a sexual racist, as I have been with just about every ethnicity. But I do have a special fondness for ASIANs, Latinos and twinks!!! (Yeah, yeah, I know..."twink" is not a race. LOL!!
---> My bf occasionally likes to crossdress. Thus, I have developed a fetish for slim/athletic/twinky/Emo guys that are into crossdressing/TV/TG...especially guys that can actually pass for a girl. If you have had breast enhancements, all that much better!!! Love them in pantyhose, nylons, garters, tight teddies...all of that.
---> LOTS of foreplay: kissing, making out, cuddling and fondling.---> I LOVE rimming a sweet, sweaty ass and sucking cock for hours!!! ---> I love having my cock sucked and my hole played with.
---> I love dicks of all sizes and shapes, especially, but not exclusively, uncut cocks. Of course, it is what you do with it that counts. With that said, there is something very hot about a younger, skinny guy who is more petite...like say, under 5ft5in...who pulls out an 8+" cock.
---> I LOVE when a guy moans and screams loudly and sex-talks!!!
---> I love bareback ass to mouth. So hot seeing my boy suck and clean my cock after it has been pumping his fuck hole! I also love sucking and cleaning the cock of another guy that has been fucking my boy. The best is when I lick the hard shaft of a guy while he is fucking my boy. Also, sucking my boy"s cock until he cums while he"s being fucked by another guy. And sucking my, or another guy"s, cum out of my boy"s dripping pussy.
(Caveat: As I said, my current bf of 4 years and I are totally monogamous. However, I did used to do this with a previous bf and with other sex partners. I admit that I miss doing it. But I do not miss the trip to the clinic for shots and medications for those scampy little STDs!)
---> I can get into light bondage... hand/leg cuffs, blindfolds, collar/leash, etc., but nothing too kinky and definitely not into any real pain. (Some very firm ass slaps, either by hand or with a crop, and nipple play here and there can be a good thing! haha)
---> I like dildos and vibrators. I like when my bf shoves a vibrating dildo inside of me and then has me fuck him.
---> I like "rape" role play. I love being the dominant one, literally ripping the clothes off my bf, making him my "bitch", while I am still clothed. I also love being the submissive one and having all that done to me.
---> I love watching my bf tease me by playing with his cock and rubbing and fingering his hole and/or working a big dildo in it.
---> I love rubbing my bf"s crotch through his jeans/pants and feeling it get hard. I also love making him (or having him make me) cum in our jeans, then do whatever....go to the store or movie, etc. It is also hot shooting a load inside my partners pants/underwear (or him shooting inside mine) and then going out and doing something...feeling his moist load of cum trapped inside my pants. I have my bf cum in my underwear in the morning and then I wear them all day and to work. It makes me feel like he is with me all the time! Mmmmm.
--->I love to fuck my bf and fill his ass full of my hot cum (or he fucks me and fills me up)...then we go out and about, shopping, or whatever.
---> I am not really an exhibitionist, but I love sex outdoors. There is something very freeing about feeling a nice breeze blow around your cock and ass. Then again, I have been known to do a few blow jobs and fucks in mall parking lots and store dressing rooms. hehe
---> I love edging and taking time for sex. My bf and I almost ALWAYS spend at least 60 minutes (!!!) for sex, edging so close to climax, but holding back, so that our inevitable release of loads is sooo powerful!!! We love different positions and locations, both inside and outside the house.
---> Spontaneous quickies can be awesome, too!!
---> I love when my bf and I go out and he outwardly dresses in a masculine way, but underneath he is wearing panties (crotchless!!! hehe), garters/stockings and a bra.
---> I love crotch and ass hugging underwear... spandex/lycra, gear, jocks, speedos, singlets, thongs, lacy womens panties and unusual designs that accentuate the crotch. I am most definitely a crotch-watcher and crotch-lover!
---> Love to wake up in the middle of the night and jack, suck and finger my bf while he is sound asleep. (He is a VERY heavy sleeper!!) Of course, he eventually wakes up and we have a short session, falling back to sleep covered in cum. He does the same thing to me, too.
---> I would love to try fur suit sex. It fascinates me. Although I am not sure what animal I would be. hehe
---> There is more, but I seriously doubt anyone has made it this far down the list. LOL!!! Feel free to ask me if you are curious.
As you can see from my turn on list, there is not much that I don't like sexually. These are my biggest no-no's:
---> NO scat!!
---> NO blood!!
---> NO fisting or ass-stretching!!!
---> NO real hardcore pain!!!
---> No offense intended to anyone, but I am not into guys much older than 35.
---> Also not into husky/heavy-set, overly hairy, bearish types.
---> I REALLY HATE young guys that make nasty comments about how they hate older guys!!! Someday, if you snotty little douchebag fuckers are lucky, you may be older, too. Remember...karma is a bitch! I can understand if you are not attracted to someone older. Just say something as simple as that. No need to be psycho nasty about it!!
--->Guys that are too quiet during sex.
--->Guys who have multiple picture albums, but only put one pic in each album!!!
---> I HATE videos with loud, stupid-ass soundtracks that cover up the sounds of sex!!! I would rather hear you moaning and screaming.
---> I hate when guys hurry to get up and wash off right after having sex. Take time and savor those sweet juices all over your bodies!!!
---> Not much into guys with overly muscular builds. (Tho it depends on the person's face.)
---> ABSOLUTELY NO hard drugs. Tweakers be damned!!! Pot (420) is cool, though, and I am all for the legalization of it!
PORN! LOL. OH, and my new favorite is "Don Jon", with Joseph Gordon-Levitt. I swear, other than the fact that he is straight in the movie, it is definitely ME!!!
Having sex, watching porn, taking XXX-rated pix, watching porn, having sex, fucking, rimming, sucking, watching porn, having sex, making XXX-rated videos, and watching our own home-made porn. haha.Oh...did I mention I LOVE having sex and watching porn??!!! LOL
I am a musician by profession, so I like almost all kinds of music, EXCEPT rap, heavy metal, hardcore country and folk music from any country.
BA/BS (4 years college)
Not that I know of
Time spent online?
Several hours a day
Campy (Cheesy), Goofy, Clever, Obscure, Dry/Sarcastic, Slapstick, Anything
I'm a light social drinker
About my Partner
I have found my ideal partner, my true love!!! He is sooooooooo handsome/cute, boyish, intelligent, funny, likes to laugh and masculine. He is also definitely in touch with his feminine side, as he occasionally crossdresses. I am madly in love with him!!!
Male, Bi-Couple, Gay-Couple, TS/TG/TV, Group
Age of partner from
Age of partner to
Erotic Chat/Email/Phone Fantasies, 1-on-1 sex, Group sex(3 or more), Bondage & Discipline, Cross-Dressing, Exhibitionism & Voyeurism, Other "Alternative" Activities
Matters the most
Partners genitals should be
Hairy, Average, Trimmed to be neat, Completely shaved
Does size matter?
What he does with it is what matters
I dont mind if my partner smokes lightly
I dont mind if my partner drinks lightly
I like all my bodyparts!
5 ft 10 in
Shaved or waxed to be neat
Treasure trail, Tummy, Legs
HIV/AIDS negative and tested regularly, Free from sexually transmitted diseases and tested regularly
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Arts/Museums, Board games, Books/Reading, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Healthy living, Movies (making), Movies (watching), Music/Concerts, Photography, Playing sports, Politics, Television (watching), Travel/Sightseeing
Live music/Music, Movies/Film, Gambling, Symphony/Opera, T.V./Videos/DVDs, Theater/Arts
Arts & Entertainment, Dramas, Movie Channels, News, Sit-coms, Stand Up Comedy, Talk Shows, Variety Shows
Action, Animation, Comedy, Crime, Drama, Film-Noir, Independent, Mystery, Porn
Blues, Broadway & Vocalists, Classic Rock, Classical, Electronic/Techno/House, Indie, Industrial, International, Jazz, Latin, Miscellaneous, R&B/Soul, Rock 'n Roll
Watch and Participate
Work & Living Environment
Live with spouse
American, Chinese, French, Italian, Mexican, Pizza, Thai
Favorite sexual fantasy
An important thing to know about me is that I like a LOT of different sex scenes. It is really all about what my partner likes --within reason, of course.
Although I am almost always a top, I would love to be bound, dominated, used and fucked hard by a CD/TV who has nice sized breasts and at least a 7.5inch cock.
I would love to be abducted and "raped", tied up/restrained and gangfucked by a group of hot young (18+) twinks, Emos, Asians, Latinos, furries.
I've already tried everything and will do it again!
Age Play, Blindfolds, Butt Play, Crossdressing, Dominance/Discipline, Exhibitionism, Gangbangs, Glory Holes, Group Sex, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Handcuffs/Shackles, Humiliation, Leather, Making Movies, Mutual Masturbation, Naturism/Nudism, Phone Sex, Piss Play, Public sex, Receiving Anal Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Strap-Ons, Threesomes, Toys
Afternoon, Mornings, Weekends, Evenings, Noon, Late Night, Weekdays
Sex, How often?
All the time
Practice Safe Sex
Most Erogenous zones?
Breasts, Butt, Ears, Inner thigh, Lips, Nipples
Boss/Employee, Celebrity/Fan, Cop/prisoner, Doctor/Nurse, Doctor/Patient, Jailer/Prisoner, Master/Slave, Police/Civilian, Prisoner/Prisoner, Prostitute/Client, Stranger/stranger, Teacher/Student
A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A moving vehicle, In the nature, A dressing room, A swimming pool/hot tub, An airplane, My bed, My yard, The beach, Under a waterfall
Dirty talk during sex?
Is a must during sex!
Making home videos/pics
Both pics and video is required to play with me
Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Penis extensions, Strap-ons, Swings, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Food for play
Chocolate sauce, Ice cream, Whipped cream
Ass slappers, Blindfolds, Cat tails, Cock and Ball Toys, Collar and leash, Gags, Handcuffs/shackles, Harnesses, Masks, Nipple clamps, Silk scarves, Whips, and more!
Porn Movies, Which?
Amateur, Anal, Bisexual, Bondage, Cumshots, Interracial, Fetish, Gay, Gonzo, Hard, Rimming, Soft, Teen (18+), Transsexual
Porn Movies, With?
By myself, Wish my partner would watch with me
Porn Movies, How often?
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