Urbanist (Urban + Humanist = Urbanist)
College educated and world travelled former US Coast Guardsman.
I've always been fascinated with the world. Some of my favorite gifts as a child were maps and globes and as an adult I have been fortunate to travel overseas to many countries including:
The United Kingdom (England, Scotland, Wales & Northern Ireland), Ireland, France, Monaco, Portugal, Spain, Belgium, Denmark, Sweden (Stockholm International Airport layover), Germany, Italy, Vatican City, Greece, Austria (Vienna Train Station), Slovakia, the Czech Republic, Aruba (Coast Guard cutter ship re-fueling), Panama, Costa Rica, El Salvador (ship re-fueling), Guatemala, Mexico & Canada.
I've have spent months at sea with the US Coast Guard and I've sailed half way around the world from the Greek Island of Crete, through the Mediterranean Sea, across the Atlantic Ocean, through the Caribbean Sea and the Panama Canal and all the way up the western coast of Central and North America to Seattle, Washington.
I'm always looking to explore more of the United States, but I have experienced some great American cities, such as:
San Francisco, California; New Orleans, Louisiana; Seattle, Washington; Chicago, Illinois; San Diego, California; Providence, Rhode Island; Indianapolis, Indiana; Honolulu, Hawaii; Los Angeles, California; Detroit, Michigan; Columbus, Ohio, Portland, Oregon & Cleveland, Ohio.
I love men and especially enjoy sexual experiences with masculine, straight, blue collar guys. Married guys are a plus. I have had sexual experiences all over the world and I currently have a curtain gloryhole in my small, historic downtown apartment and have had 100-plus guys come by and blow their loads down my throat! I love it when they moan when blowing their wad. It's always a great time. Maybe one day I'll start recording them to show those hot asses thrusting away!
In the words of America's great gay poet (& fellow lover of rough trade) Walt Whitman:
"I will plant companionship thick as trees along all the rivers of America,
and along the shores of the great lakes,
and all over the prairies;
I will make inseparable cities,
with their arms about each other's necks;
BY THE LOVE OF COMRADES,
BY THE MANLY LOVE OF COMRADES."
-Walt Whitman's "Leaves of Grass"
Blue collar men, tattooed rough trade, straight and married guys, country boys, rednecks, white thugs, street hustlers, tattooed ex-cons, male strippers, sports jocks (football, basketball and wrestling), skater-boy punks and men in uniform (sailors, Army and Marines). I have a constant hunger for musky asses, big dicks and musky armpits, balls and crotches. I've known a couple guys who didn't wear deodorant and smelled so fucking good and natural at the end of the day. Love that fucking smell. Makes my dick so hard. I'm always staring at guys butts when I'm out in public. I like to daydream about what their cracks smell like at that moment. It's fun to think how a guy might be all pimped out and still have a stinky butt. I fantasize about pulling down their pants and burying my face in their musky, sticky sweet holes.
I love public sex and cruise regularly in my city's public parks (Sweeney Park, Franke Park & the Rivergreenway system). I have also had hot sex in the great urban parks of San Francisco, California (Buena Vista Park & Golden Gate Park); Oakland, California (Lakeside Park); Berkeley, California (Berkeley Aquatic Park); San Diego, California (Balboa Park); Seattle, Washington (Volunteer Park) & Honolulu, Hawaii (Kapiolani Park). But it all began with my first outdoor blowjob in Springwood Lake Park in Richmond, Indiana in 2003. That guy gave GREAT FUCKING HEAD. He was a true master.
I'm addicted to GLORYHOLES. I first experienced them at the dirty, trucker adult bookstores in Northwest Indiana (Romantix & Trucker's World in Gary). I enjoy quality amateur porn, including the GREAT guys making HOT gloryhole videos and posting them here on Xtube. Most of these videos are listed on my favorites.
I enjoy giving and getting good head, although I'm amazed at the number of gay guys who are TERRIBLE at giving head. They need to have their gay membership card revoked. When you're giving a guy head, you need to be completely focused on him and getting him off.
Love rimming a hot butt and having a guy sit on my face while he sucks or jerks me off. I stand ready to fuck a hot ass if the situation feels right. I enjoy jerking off in my car and in the rest room at my office building (great way to relax a little at work) & picking up rough trade on the street for blowjobs, handjobs and rim jobs.
People who think they are better than everyone else. Guys who are too afraid to go after what they want. Life is short and you better enjoy it while you have it.
Dramas, Horror, Science Fiction, and of course good quality amateur porn.
Dead Poets Society; The Lion in Winter; The Queen; Solaris; The Talented Mr. Ripley; The Last Winter; Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil and many others.
Some of my favorite gay films include: My Beautiful Laundrette; Maurice; Beautiful Thing; Wilde; Total Eclipse; Gods and Monsters; Brokeback Mountain; Stranger by the Lake; Shortbus; Lilies; Red Dirt & The Mudge Boy.
The arts, travel, books, food, the outdoors, watching and attending sporting events (nothing better than eyeing hot jocks in competition!)
Love gay strip clubs! Here are some of my favorites in the US:
The Corner Pocket (New Orleans, Louisiana)
Club Gold Coast (Detroit, Michigan) (VIP Rooms!)
Nob Hill Adult Theatre (San Francisco, California)
Boxers n' Briefs (Centreville, Illinois - across the Mississippi from St. Louis, Missouri) (All NUDE!!!)
Lucky Horseshoe Lounge (Chicago, Illinois)
The Unicorn Club (Indianapolis, Indiana) (*Unfortunately closed in 2013. We've got to support these places if they are to stay open.)
Tearoom Theatre (San Francisco, California)
Toolbox Saloon & Tavern (Columbus, Ohio)
Pop, R&B, some Rap, Classical and even a little Country. Dave Matthews Band, Sting, Michael Jackson, David Gray, Enigma & too many more to name.
"New York Hustlers: Masculinity and Sex in Modern America" by Barry Reay
"Strapped for Cash: A History of American Hustler Culture" by Mack Friedman
"Secret Historian" by Justin Spring
"One Arm and Other Short Stories" & "Hard Candy" by Tennessee Williams
"Tennessee Williams: Collected Stories" by Tennessee Williams
"The Candles of Your Eyes" by James Purdy
"The Complete Short Stories of James Purdy" by James Purdy
"War Against the Animals" "The Coming Storm" "Sea of Tranquility" & "Boys of Life" by Paul Russell
"While England Sleeps" "The Page Turner" "Arkansas" & "The Indian Clerk" by David Leavitt
"The Swimming Pool Library" & "The Folding Star" by Alan Hollinghurst
"At Swim, Two Boys" by Jamie O'Neill
"The Boy Who Picked the Bullets Up" by Charles Nelson
"Let the Dead Bury Their Dead" by Randall Kenan
"Everything I Have is Blue" by Wendell Ricketts
"Briefly Told Lives" by C. Bard Cole
"The Carnivorous Lamb" by Augustin Gomez-Arcos
"The Bitterweed Path" by Thomas Hal Phillips
"Giovanni's Room" by James Baldwin
"The Obelisk" & "Maurice" by E.M. Forster
"Clearcut" by Nina Shengold"
"Back Roads" by Tawni O'Dell
"American Salvage" by Bonnie Jo Campbell
"The Innocent" by Robert Taylor
"Queer" by William S. Burroughs
"The Joint" by James Blake
"Close Range" by Annie Proulx (contains the short story "Brokeback Mountain")
"Size Queen and Other Poems" by Dennis Kelly
BA/BS (4 years college)
Time spent online?
Several hours a day
I'm a non-smoker
I'm a light social drinker
About my Partner
I wanted a boyfriend/partner when I was younger, but now I just enjoy having close friends to do things with, like eating out, movies and arts/sports activities. I value my independence and my alone time, but I'm not against a relationship. I think I'd be open to one if it developed, but it is not something I'm actively pursuing.
Male, Bi-Couple, Gay-Couple, Group
6 ft 1 in
Unshaved and bushy
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Arts/Museums, Books/Reading, Motorcycles, Movies (watching), Music/Concerts, Politics, Travel/Sightseeing
Live music/Music, Movies/Film, Symphony/Opera, T.V./Videos/DVDs, Theater/Arts
Classics, Drama, Horror, Independent, Porn, Science Fiction
Classical, Hip-Hop, Pop/Top 40, R&B/Soul, Rap
Biographies, Erotica, Fiction, History, Magazines
Work & Living Environment
American, Cajun, Chinese, Fast food, Greek, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Pizza, Seafood, Thai
I'll try most anything once
Sex, How often?
At least once a week
Dirty talk during sex?
Entirely depends on my mood
Willing to experiment
Porn Movies, Which?
Amateur, Anal, Interracial, Gay, Rimming, Teen (18+)
Porn Movies, With?
Porn Movies, How often?
All the time!