My name's Alex (though please feel free to call be Lexi :) ), and I'm in a loving long term relationship with my wife (married 2+ years together 11 years)
I live a pretty hectic life trying to balance my hobby (music), my job (video games), my social life, my family life, and oh yes, my kink ;). I am a frisky individual, pretty easy going, and absolutely love to meet and chat with new people so please don't be a stranger :)
An extra note, please don"t add me without a comment, message, or something. I love having kinky friends, but my whole purpose of this account is to try and break this anonymity and (to a certain extent) shame that I"ve felt towards my kink in the past. We"re all grown-ups here (save the ABDL types, mentally that is), so please don"t be afraid to approach me.
1. Stimulating Conversation
I absolutely love to chat and meet new people and this is something from my regular life that carries over strongly into my kinky world
2. Dress Up!
I have been crossdressing on and off since I can remember (started around 5-6 years old). I started by "borrowing" my mom and sister"s things and continued all the way through high school intermittently. However, once I could afford to purchase my own things, I quit "borrowing", and started building my own lil wardrobe. Now my gf and I live together and I have my own panty drawer, nylons and bra drawer, and a couple dresses, skirts, and tops hanging on my side of the closet. I love any and all lingerie, panties, bras, corsets, stockings, etc, etc, etc....my panties are wet just thinking about it ;)
I love my toys! My gf always laughs that I have more toys than she does lol. I love my toys and constantly find myself in different moods craving different things, so I have different toys for what ails me ;). I have not had sex with a guy (as this is generally the next question after toys are brought up), but I will be the first to say that I am "bi-curious" when it comes to sissies, cd"s, tv"s, ts"s etc. Masculine men do not do anything for me though, so please don"t message me about your "big dick." My Domme"s cock (my dildo) fills me just fine thank you very much.
4. Being submissive
I spend so much of my daily life in a dominant assertive manner. When I can, I like to let go of all control, and just be an obedient lil submissive sissy
This is sort of an open-ended no brainer. I like to have a good time, try new things, see new places, meet new people. I try not to take myself too seriously so if you would like to chat and have a laugh, please feel free to message me.
If there is anything else you would like to know, please message me and I will be happy to answer any and all questions.
I do have a few pet peeves;
1. Needles and pointy things
I have a terrible fear of needles and I am actually quite squeamish when it comes to any sort of involvement of blood. Eventually I hope to overcome this phobia so that I can get tattooed...but that is for another day
2. Ignorance and Arrogance
I am still very new to the scene and my kink, but I will always be respectful of any and all kinks and kinksters (even if it"s not my cup of tea). That being said, I do not need anyone"s judgement or to be told how to enjoy my kink, how to behave, or what it means to be a submissive/crossdresser/sissy/etc. I have found what works for me and I could not be happier.
Sorry, it"s just not something I enjoy. I love my toys a lot a lot, but I am super OCD about making sure I am clean before I play. I don"t care for it, but to each their own. Watersports on the other hand....hehe, well the jury"s still out on that one :D
Confederate flags, KKK, Nazism, the use of the "N" word or the "f" word (the homosexual slur that is)...I"m sorry, but if this is you, just don"t bother.
Sorry to burst your bubbles gents, but I am not interested in you sexually. I may comment and love to talk with anyone and everyone, but my interests are mainly towards the more feminine type. I do have a huge sissy crush on most (if not all) sissies, tg"s, and ts"s though, and I will be the first to say it ;)
Time spent online?
I never log off
I'm a non-smoker
I'm a light social drinker
About my Partner
Female, Bi-Couple, Lesbian-Couple, TS/TG/TV
Cross-Dressing, Exhibitionism & Voyeurism
Whole package matters more
Partners genitals should be
Hairy, Average, Trimmed to be neat, Completely shaved
Does size matter?
Size doesn't matter at all
I dont want my partner to smoke
I dont mind if my partner drinks lightly
I like all my bodyparts!
5 ft 11 in
Smooth, Moustache, Beard
Shaved or waxed to be gone
Glasses or Contacts
Free from sexually transmitted diseases and tested regularly
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Work & Living Environment
Live with spouse
American, Chinese, Fast food, French, Japanese, Italian, Mexican, Pizza, Seafood, Thai
I'll try most anything once
Blindfolds, Butt Play, Breast/Nipple Clamps, Crossdressing, Dominance/Discipline, Exhibitionism, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Handcuffs/Shackles, Humiliation, Massage, Mutual Masturbation, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Strap-Ons, Threesomes, Toys
Afternoon, Mornings, Weekends, Evenings, Noon, Late Night, Weekdays
Sex, How often?
All the time
Practice Safe Sex
Most Erogenous zones?
Back, Breasts, Butt, Ears, Inner thigh, Lips, Neck, Nipples
Boss/Employee, Doctor/Nurse, Doctor/Patient, Stranger/stranger, I'm not into role playing
A dark back alley, A moving vehicle, In the nature, A dressing room, A swimming pool/hot tub, My bed, My yard, The beach, Under a waterfall
Dirty talk during sex?
Entirely depends on my mood
Making home videos/pics
I'd consider doing
Bars or pubs, Night clubs, Fetish parties
Anal/Climax beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vaginas
Chastity devices, Collar and leash, Gags, Handcuffs/shackles, Nipple clamps, Paddles
Porn Movies, Which?
Amateur, Anal, BBW, Bisexual, Bondage, Busty women, Cumshots, Fetish, Hard, Lesbian, Transsexual
Porn Movies, With?
By myself, With a partner, With someone else
Porn Movies, How often?
All the time!