A loving, laughing sexy big woman!
I"m in my late40"s, and I"m a sapiosexualï BBW, actually an SSBBW at over 350 lbs. I know that I have a sexy brain, but I"ve always been ashamed of my body size. While I heard that there are lots of other men out there who would find me sexy, I had never found any...untilï 12 years ago and then again 2 years ago. They have tried to make me see myself as beautiful,ï and I have to say that I am starting to get it. I am big, but also damn sexy, andï there are many who would be interested in me from this site. One in particular has helped me feel quite desirable and I love okla very much!ï
I have very large breasts, a smaller waist and an extremely large and round butt. I"m also fairly intelligent, intuitive and I love to laugh, definitely don"t take myself too seriously. I have reddish-blond hair and blue eyes, and have been always told that I have "such a pretty face". I will not post photos or videos on here,ï I won"t cam, but if you are interested in chatting or voiping, let me know. I only accept friends who are interested in interacting in some fashion with me. I have a genuinely huge appetite for life, and like to use all my senses to experience it. I tend to be honest and try not to sweat the small stuff...life is short and priceless.
Men in general! I love penises of all sizes, am especially partial to smaller cocks.ï Love the sounds, smells, tastes and textures of sex. Literate men, artistic souls, men who have lived and love to tell the tales. I love to make love to a man"s body with my mouth, and to hear and see his reactions. Love nipple play as well. I am partial to larger men (BHM) and pubic hair, and I love man boobs, especially if they are sensitive. Love to kiss. Love men who are into imaginative play on email, voip or IM...men who can feel what I am describing as we talk. Love men who are verbal and like to talk. A good sense of humor is a must, love laughing (even during sex)! Love snugglingï after a great orgasm!
Smallness--not in stature but in spirit, people who can"t appreciate the differences that make us all unique. Know-it-alls, arrogance and stagnant minds. Poor hygiene, especially dirty teeth. Men who put women down because they have a sex drive. People who butcher the english language with text-speak and hip hop stuff, please just speak plain truth with love and I"ll answer! Not into poop at all, and not into anal penetration. People who ask to be friends, but have nothing in their profile--how do I know if I want to be your friend just from a picture??? Anyone who continues to ask for pics, vids, camming. or a meet up when I have already said no, as I give you whatever I can.
Lots, A Beautiful Mind, Pirates of the Carribean 1-3, Apoccalypto, Dances with Wolves, Bicentennial Man, Little Miss Sunshine, The Shining, Sweeney Todd, Witches of Eastwick, Follow the River, Something"s Gotta Give, Marley and me, Avatar, Twilight, New Moon, Eclipse, Grand Torino, The Reader, The Wrestler, the Last Airbender...that"ll do for a start. I am also a True Blood junkie.
Creating, Reading, Knitting, Napping, Cuddling, Dancing, Collecting Arts and crafts, Writing, Cooking and Eating, Ebay, Shopping, Traveling, Sex, Interesting conversations with friends in any number of ways, xtube, making new friends...
I"m into mostly classic rock/pop/folk, Rod Stewart, Peter Gabriel, Van Morrison, Creed, Talking Heads, Robbie Robertson, Chris Isaak, Robbie Robertson, Cat Stevens, Paul Simon(& with Garfunkel) Clapton, Queen, ELO, Doors, CCR, Annie Lennox, Emerson, Lake and Palmer, Moody Blues, Donovan, Santana, Edie Brickell, Iron Butterfly, Sinead OConnor,Jethro Tull, Sting, Sarah Groves, Tracy Chapman, Johhny Clegg and Savuka, Otis Redding, Mamas and Papas, Jefferson Airplane, Crosby,Stills, Nash and Young, Tori Amos, Shawn Colvin, Harry Chapin, Dave Matthew, DC Talk, Chris Sligh,ï Chris Rice...and more!
Many, too many. I devour books. Fiction, Non-Fiction alike, Romance, trashy novels, Fantasy, Erotic lit, ..Nora Roberts, Nicholas Sparks, Charlaine Harris.I"ll add more later. Current favorites...Twilight, Into the Wild, The Shack, The Sookie Stackhouse series.
BA/BS (4 years college)
Time spent online?
Several hours a day
Goofy, Clever, Obscure, Dry/Sarcastic
I'm a non-smoker
I'm a light social drinker
About my Partner
My ideal partner would be a man late 30"s to mid 60"s. He must have a sexy brain, be intelligent, creative, gentle and kind. He must love to laugh and do so frequently. He needs to love cuddling, and lots of attention. He needs to be my best friend as well as my lover. Men who are highly sensual and good communicators get extra points. Looks are not all that important, and I have a penchant for smaller cocks. He must love to receive oral sex, as I love to make love to a man with my mouth. He must treat me as though he treasures me and I will awaken in him qualities he never knew he had.
Erotic Chat/Email/Phone Fantasies
Whole package matters more
Partners genitals should be
Does size matter?
Size doesn't matter at all
I dont want my partner to smoke
I dont mind if my partner drinks lightly
5 ft 7 in
Glasses or Contacts
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Arts/Museums, Books/Reading, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Movies (watching), Shopping, Travel/Sightseeing
Live music/Music, Theater/Arts
Family, Classics, Comedy, Drama, Fantasy, Romance
Alternative Rock, Blues, Christian & Gospel, Classic Rock, Folk, Indie, New Age
Best Sellers, Erotica, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Magazines, Romance
Work & Living Environment
Giving Oral Sex, Massage, Mutual Masturbation, Phone Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing
Practice Safe Sex
Most Erogenous zones?
Belly, Breasts, Fingers, Hands, Inner thigh, Lips, Neck, Nipples
A movie theatre, In the nature, A swimming pool/hot tub, My bed, The beach, Under a waterfall
Dirty talk during sex?
Entirely depends on my mood
Making home videos/pics
I'd consider doing
Willing to experiment
Food for play
Chocolate sauce, Ice, Popsicles, Whipped cream