My name is from my hobby. I love going to haunted places in Northern California.
Otherwise, just a normal, healthy guy in his late 40"s. In an open relationship (legally married to braveboyjames) and totally above board with my partner. We love to play...not opposed to playing together, but we like very different types of men; so it"s difficult to find one we both consider attractive.
I am a little over 6"3" and around 265 pounds. I"ve lost 50 pounds in 2010 and my goal is another 30. I have no false perceptions about myself. I am a middle aged chubby man. Either you find me attractive or you don"t. If you do, hit me up and let"s chat.
Very spiritual person, but I don"t find much appealing about any organized religion. I love all people and refuse to judge anyone; however, I am very picky about who I choose to be friends with. And even more picky about who I have sexual encounters with...and neither have anything to do with physical appearance for the most part.
My ideal situation would be to find a good friend and fuck buddy who is close to the West Sacramento general area to watch porn, have a few beers, and get naked on occasion.
Sucker for a pretty face and a chiseled body...young, muscular guys get my dick really hard, but there have been plenty of older, chubby guys I get a boner over, too. So, nothing is in stone from a physical perspective.
Kindness is a huge turn on for me.
I don"t have a preference for cock size. I only have about 6 inches, but it works I"m happy with it.
I"m a top. If you want to try going in the back door, you"d better have a lot of beer and even more patience. And if you"re bigger than my middle finger, it"s a strong chance that it ain"t gonna happen...but, I"m willing to give it a shot. Would not be opposed to becoming more versatile over time.
I love rimming a hot butt. I also like playing with foreskins, but I really don"t care about cut or uncut status otherwise. Skin color is not an issue either.
I"ve been really curious about watersports, but I don"t know if I would like it in practice. I have to admit that watching videos of it really get a rise in my shorts. Totally not opposed to giving it a shot.
I find straight guys very sexy. If you"re a curious straight guy, then please hit me up. I"m also not opposed to a bisexual MMF experience.
You must be a nice human being. I don"t care if you drink and I"d be happy to sit down and have a beer (or 10) with you; but if you are a mean drunk, then I don"t want to hang with you. If you yell at the waiter or have nothing but sarcasm in your voice all the time, then we"re not going to get along very well either.
Slim to chubby is great, but majorly obese persons will probably not get my dick hard. Might be willing to let you jerk me off or suck me, but that"s about it.
Smoking is not necessarily a turn off, but I would probably avoid kissing you after you"ve had a cigarette. I am 420-friendly, but I don"t partake.
I don"t think I would enjoy group sex, but I wouldn"t say "no" necessarily. It would depend on who else is involved.
I am not interested in anything involving scat, animals, or children.
I love movies...pretty much all genres. Favorites include Star Wars, Star Trek, Funny Girl, The Music Man, Milk, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, True Grit (the original), McClintock, Guess Who"s Coming to Dinner, In and Out, and the list goes on. I also love documentaries. Huge Buffy the Vampire Slayer fan.
I"m a former professional musician/singer and I like to keep my musical chops in shape.
Most anything except rap. I find most hip/hop and pop singers today seriously lacking.
Don"t have much time to read these days. I"m a student of A Course in Miracles and if I do find time to read, I try to read spiritual material.
Yes, and they live away from home
Time spent online?
An hour or so a day
Campy (Cheesy), Goofy, Clever, Slapstick, Anything
I'm a non-smoker
I'm a heavy social drinker
Kids, How many?
About my Partner
A buddy who just happens to like beer, porn, and getting naked.
Male, Bi-Couple, Gay-Couple, Group
Age of partner from
Age of partner to
Whole package matters more
Does size matter?
Size doesn't matter at all
I dont mind if my partner smokes lightly
I like all my bodyparts!
6 ft 4 in
Glasses or Contacts
Free from sexually transmitted diseases and tested regularly
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Alumni connections, Antiques/Collectibles, Coffee and conversation, Computer Games, Cooking, Fishing/Hunting, Movies (making), Movies (watching), Music/Concerts, Television (watching), Travel/Sightseeing
Computer games, Live music/Music, Movies/Film, Symphony/Opera, T.V./Videos/DVDs, Theater/Arts, Wine tasting
Arts & Entertainment, Cartoons, Documentary/Learning, Dramas, News, Sci-Fi, Sit-coms, Soft Porn, Stand Up Comedy
Action, Adventure, Animation, Family, Classics, Comedy, Crime, Documentary, Drama, Fantasy, Film-Noir, Horror, Independent, Musicals, Mystery, Porn, Romance, Science Fiction, Thrillers, War, Westerns
Alternative Rock, Blues, Broadway & Vocalists, Classic Rock, Classical, Dance & DJ, Folk, Jazz, Miscellaneous, Opera, Pop/Top 40, R&B/Soul, Rock 'n Roll, Soundtracks
Work & Living Environment
$75,001 to $100,000
Live with spouse
American, Cajun, Chinese, Fast food, French, Greek, Japanese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Mongolian, Persian, Pizza, Seafood, Thai, Vietnameese
Favorite sexual fantasy
Deep rimming a 20 year old jock boy as he sits on my face and sucks my cock.
Butt Play, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Making Movies, Massage, Mutual Masturbation, Piss Play, Receiving Oral Sex
Sex, How often?
At least once a week
Practice Safe Sex
Most Erogenous zones?
Butt, Ears, Neck, Nipples
A swimming pool/hot tub, My bed, My yard, Under a waterfall
Dirty talk during sex?
Entirely depends on my mood
Making home videos/pics
Have a few videos of myself
Willing to experiment
Porn Movies, Which?
Amateur, Anal, Bisexual, Gay, Hard, Rimming, Teen (18+)
Porn Movies, With?
Wish my partner would watch with me
Porn Movies, How often?