General Info
Bay Area Butt-Banger
I"m in Berkeley California, where I belong because I"m a totally liberal guy, mostly top but versatile, and love doing the naughty outdoors, in strange places, while being videotaped so I can slap it on here.
You can catch me on Growlr or Scruff as RedSpider if you"re passing through town and you"re a hot cubbie or bear, or especially daddy. I"ve found the love of my life, just as horny a freak as me, and his name is Ray. Just like mine. And we"re both born on July 3rd, so that"ll save on cakes. Greatest part is that he"s a very experienced leather sir (Nor Cal Leather Sir of 2012 in fact) and a motorcyclist (I ride bitch, but that"s daddy bitch to you). We"re two vers/tops needing a boy to serve us, mostly to hold the video camera.
Turn Ons
To be honest, I don"t know a lot of what turns me on, since I"ve not experienced much. After 11 years of being out, all I"d ever found myself with are people who didn"t really want to do anything... I guess they"d done it all already and were over it, and didn"t care that I hadn"t. So now with Ray I"m finding out all kinds of things about myself.
I knew I liked bears. I knew I love daddy bears, and cubs, and that I could easily see myself in a life with one of each in a fantastic triad. But Ray accepts that I know that I don"t do rough stuff since I"m already somewhat physically disabled and have to be careful, and that pain takes me to dark places due to my PTSD. And a few things I know I like: nipple play (not hard), candlewax, topping and bottoming, and hardcore kissing. Ray"s taking me through bondage (can"t believe how much I trust him, and it"s wonderful) as well as sensory deprivation, but also violet wand and other fun things.
But mostly, exhibitionist here. I"d rather help make the porn than watch it, because my right hand doesn"t do it for me anymore. And now I have someone wonderful to make it with. So come on Bay bears, let"s make some history!
Turn Offs
Men who just want to get their own rocks off and won"t help you do the same. Men who don"t want to do anything but jerk off together, because that bores me. Men who"d rather spend their time having sex with their laptop and webcam with people on a screen than in real life. And men whose list of things they want to try is extremely short while their list of things they"d never want to try is long and always having new things added to it. If I show you a new food you"ve never tried before and your first reaction is "Eww," you and I won"t hit it off, believe me. But mostly, men who lack intelligence. No rightwing FoxNews nutcases. No str8 acting fratboy who just wants to try it cuz he"s so curious (nor anyone who types things like "str8" or "cuz" thinking these are actual words) and nobody who types like this: "u horny im 8 inchs lets fuk" because that"s just inexcusable stupidity. (PS: I use proper contractions, but all my apostrophes are turning to quotation marks... what the hell, X-Tube?)
Music
Pantera, Five Finger Death Punch, Rob Zombie, Disturbed
Books
"Ishmael" by Daniel Quinn
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Thanx RayRedSpider 4 adding me as ur friend! gr8 hot vids as i like 2 have fun with!
i love your video it so great and i enjoying seen you every much i sent you a messge and i do not know if you got it but i would love to talk to you more and be your friend whats your emil
hey hot man. if you are ever up in northern arizona, little town called Selligman, halfway between kingman and flagstaff on I-40, drop me a line. my hubbie and i'd love to host and show you one helluva good time. drop me a line to dadbearaz@yahoo.com/ would love to hear from you.
I use to blow a lot of truckers back in the day, so damn hot to cliam into a truck,
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thank for accepting my friend request =)