"Not all who wander are lost... " ~Gandalf the Grey
"Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place." ~ Billy Crystal
"Life is a banquet, and most poor suckers are starving to death!" ~ Mame Dennis
I really enjoy all of your comments and I always reply to all messages and email. So let me know what you think about my "stuff," or just chat me up. I always love a good conversation ...
"Kissing is an activity that requires both hands." ~ Mark Twain
I LOVE the earthy, metallic scent of a man: his freshly sweaty armpit like a galvanized tin bucket left out in the rain; the oily spot behind his ears like burnt copper; the hair at the nape of his neck like a freshly lit match; the small depression at the base of his throat like salt and stainless steel. Nipples smell like rust; naturally sweaty cock like raw petroleum: flammable; and a well-kept ass smells and tastes of the grass and earth of a fresh-plowed field. Cum tastes of the fruit of earth and sea, yet is the most heavenly scent a man produces. Combine sweaty cock and balls with ass, and cum, and I"ll sniff my way from Obsession into Eternity. Cologne has its place, but as for me, as long as he showers occasionally, no man ever needs deodorant or cologne: let me smell him as he is, a naturally-scented MAN!
(Inspired by and Dedicated to math5020)
Tasting your firm and tender
passionate and careful
insistent and yielding
desirous and generous kiss
Feeling your strong and gentle hand anywhere
Smelling your (musky, tangy, earthy, spicy)
fresh, clean sweat
[as purest dew sublimed
from richest soil by new-mown hay
at sweetly searing kiss of rising summer sun]
Hearing your breath catch just before you cross the edge... ah!
lose control ...! Unh!
surge toward the finish ...Uuuunnh! ...Unh!
Seeing you in wild abandon ...
Kindness and Compassion can be Irresistible
then there"s kissing long and deep,
nipping my neck and teasing my nips,
69 all night (instead of sleeping)
cuddling all day (instead of going to work),
all the little kinky things in my fave vids (q.v.),
and probably more stuff I haven"t thought of...
(it"ll be obvious when it comes up)
Drugs (except occasional pot)
Laziness/Lack of income
Hypocrisy, Dishonesty, and Cruelty
Prejudice, Bigotry, and Narrow-Mindedness
Twinks (juicy, but just not ripe enough)
More than just "a few extra pounds"
More muscle than brain
More "me" than anything else
More stuff than soul
Insensitive, Unimaginative, Ignorant Tops
Lazy, Artless, Whiney Bottoms
Anything electronic that"s more important than I am, so turn off that goddam cell phone!
and probably more stuff I won"t find out until it"s too late ...
Young Man, beware your deprecation of "old men over 40" for, upon reflection, you must find that you hate what you will, yourself, inevitably become; and you will find the only alternative far less appealing.
********** A Sonnet: To Underwear **********
Next to naked, nothing less than cotton skivvies" soft caress,
Cupping firmly private parts and speeding beats of kindred hearts,
Can free my inner sexual fox when opportunity e"er knocks.
O"er briefs I constantly obsess, whose color, cut and fit express
Not only stylish fashion smarts, but also ken of sensual arts,
Stretched tightly over rigid cocks and lightly hugging throbbing rocks.
My understated sexiness may not at first his crotch impress,
But underwear the mood imparts when intimacy finally starts
To overcome my timid blocks, and lust his deep desire unlocks.
So Underwear, best comfort mine, preserver of my manly musk,
You pleasure me, so soft and fine, from early dawn to deepest dusk.
Among many others: Strangers on a Train (Hitchcock), Blade Runner, Eve"s Bayou, The Crying Game, Saving Private Ryan, Young Frankenstein, Old Yeller, Harold and Kumar Go to White Castle, The Man with the X-ray Eyes, Fantasia, The Shawshank Redemption, Ghost, Fried Green Tomatoes, The African Queen, Crash, Jules and Jim, Bastard Out of Carolina, Auntie Mame (with Rosalind Russell), The Day the Earth Stood Still (the original: "Gort! Klaatu barada nikto!"), West Side Story (when you"re a Jet in tight chinos or jeans...), Babe, Dolores Claiborne, Priscilla: Queen of the Desert, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Little Dorritt (PBS Masterpiece Theatre series), Big, Dead Poet"s Society Rebel Without A Cause (James Dean, Sal Mineo, red leather, and sweat... what"s not to like?), Goodwill Hunting, The Magnificent Seven, Beetlejuice, Kindergarten Cop, Far From Heaven (Dennis Quaid is Soooooo Gay), Smoke Signals, The King and I, A Clockwork Orange, At Play in the Fields of the Lord, The Shining, Avatar, A Christmas Story, The Dirty Dozen, Now Voyager, Parting Glances, Singing in the Rain, Whatever Happened to Baby Jane?, The Sound of Music, The Green Mile, The Ten Commandments, Top Gun (beach volleyball: mmmm... ), To Kill A Mockingbird, Play Misty for Me, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Harvey, Star Wars, The Little Shop of Horrors, The Talented Mr. Ripley, Minority Report, Fargo, Steel Magnolias, The Raiders of the Lost Ark, Muriel"s Wedding, The Grinch Who Stole Christmas, Platoon, A Home at the End of the World, Dancing at Lughnasa, Thelma and Louise (Brad Pitt, yummy!), Hellboy, The Emperor"s New Groove, Alien/Aliens, The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas (Aggie Boys dancin" in the locker room... yee haw!), The Ten Thousand Fingers of Dr. Terwilliger, Rear Window, The Blue Lagoon, Simon Birch, Total Recall, Ma Vie en Rose, The Civil War (Ken Burns PBS Documentary), Rocky Horror Picture Show (who can stand the antici... pation!?), In the Gloaming, Pulp Fiction, The Lord of the Rings, Toy Story 3D, Alice, The Wedding Banquet, and of course, Brokeback Mountain (although it hurt so much, I"ve only seen it once)...
Too many: jackin"-off, reading, jackin"-off while reading porn (or just looking at the pictures), gardening, masturbating, masturbating in the garden, poetry, gem collecting, jerking-off, camping and hiking, jerking-off while camping and hiking, traveling, fucking, fucking while traveling, drawing, pocket knife collecting, sucking cock, fishing, sucking cock while on a fishing trip, any kind of shopping, underwear, shopping for underwear, anything scientific, cards and board games, spunking my underwear, various artsy-crafty things,... did I say "wanking?"... more ...
"You have to change to stay the same."
~ Willem de Kooning
Some things recently learned:________________
With a soft heart, I need a tough skin to be completely happy.
Nice guys are where you find them: everywhere.
Flattery can get you everywhere, including into trouble.
Just ask: Someone will say "yes!"
Wisdom may be acquired simply by listening more and talking less.
Sure, I forget: Some things are best forgotten; eventually, I remember the important things.
I miss my friend, Tim.
"Nice guys finish." ~ Anonymous
Wide open and multicultural: even rap/hip-hop that doesn"t include "muthafucka," "bitch," or "kill da [cops, fags, bitch, or anyone else]" in the lyrics. Free association of some special noted: Etta James, Lena Horne, Patsy Cline, Madonna, depeche-mode, Adele, Cream, Monserrat Caballe, Heart, The Doors, The Go-Gos, Roy Orbison, REM, Sweet Honey In The Rock, Bob Dylan, Joan Baez, Pink Floyd, Tony Bennett, Handel, Bach, Rachmaninoff, Puccini, Shostakovich, Vivaldi, Verdi, Nat King Cole, Gershwin, Placido Domingo, Cole Porter, Duke Ellington, The Doobie Brothers, INXS, Extreme, Steely Dan, The "Stones, The Kinks, Bowie, Pearl Jam, Jason Mroz, Lady Antebellum, Hootie-Without-The-Blowfish whatever-the-fuck-his-name-is I can never fucking remember: Darrel? Something? --, Connie Francis, Black-Eyed Peas, Ravi Shankhar, Maroon 5, John Denver, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Cachao, Duran Duran, The Cure, Joan Armatrading, Nora Jones, Hall & Oates, Lady GaGa, Suzy Boggus, The Beach Boys, Al Green, Otis Redding, Green Day, Janis Joplin, Tito Puente, Tina Turner, Celtic Thunder, Al Jarreau, Sinatra, Pointer Sisters, Bette Midler, Ella Fitzgerald, Benny Goodman, Aretha Franklin, Mannheim Steamroller, Suzanne Vega, O.A.R., Jobim, The Carpenters, the B-52s, Bryan Adams, Beastie Boys, Cesaria Evora, Queen Latifah, Kanye West (when he keeps his big mouth shut), Barry White, Leonard Cohen, Alison Krause, K.D. Laing, The Beatles, Shania Twain, Deep Purple, Bonnie Raitt, Emmylou Harris, Lorrie Morgan, Odetta, Stevie Wonder, Little Richard, Diana Krall, Johnny Cash, Sade, Gin Blossoms, Prince, LL CoolJay, coldplay, Lyle Lovett, Eurythmics, Dave Mathews Band, Pet Shop Boys, The Clash, The Boss, Scissors Sisters ...
"Don"t have sex, Man! It leads to kissing, and pretty soon you have to start talking to them..." ~ Steve Martin
Yes. Most recently: the Stephanie Plum series, by Janet Evanovich. What a scream!
Some grad school
Time spent online?
Several hours a day
English, French/Francais, Portuguese/Portugues, Spanish/Espanol
Spiritual but not religious
Goofy, Clever, Dry/Sarcastic
I'm a light social smoker
I'm a light social drinker
About my Partner
My massage therapist, except he"s straight and married with children
So... A Strong, Sensitive, Adventurous, Intelligent Top who loves to kiss, cuddle, play, and laugh.
Average is all I need in everything else. Anything more would be gravy (or a boatload of cum!) XD
Male, Bi-Couple, Gay-Couple, Group
Age of partner from
Age of partner to
Erotic Chat/Email/Phone Fantasies, 1-on-1 sex, Group sex(3 or more), Exhibitionism & Voyeurism, Miscellaneous Fetishes, Other "Alternative" Activities
Whole package matters more
Partners genitals should be
Does size matter?
What he does with it is what matters
I dont mind if my partner smokes lightly
I want my partner to drink lightly
I like all my bodyparts!
5 ft 8 in
Shaved or waxed to be neat
Arms, Chest, Pits, Tummy, Legs
Glasses or Contacts
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Antiques/Collectibles, Arts/Museums, Board games, Books/Reading, Business networking, Business news, Camping/Outdoors, Coffee and conversation, Collecting, Cooking, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies (making), Movies (watching), Music/Concerts, Painting, Playing cards, Politics, Shopping, Television (watching), Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports
Dancing, Live music/Music, Movies/Film, Nightclubs/Parties, Symphony/Opera, T.V./Videos/DVDs, Theater/Arts, Wine tasting
Arts & Entertainment, Cartoons, Documentary/Learning, Dramas, Movie Channels, News, Sci-Fi, Sit-coms, Stand Up Comedy, Talk Shows, Variety Shows
Best Sellers, Biographies, Erotica, Fantasy, History, Horror, Magazines, Mystery, Sci-Fi, Science/Technology, Self-Help, Thrillers, Travel
Work & Living Environment
$50,001 to $75,000
Live with pets
Cajun, Chinese, French, Greek, Indian, Mexican, Persian, Pizza, Thai, Vegetarian, Vietnameese
Favorite sexual fantasy
1) Trapped in a snowbound cabin with the man of my dreams with enough provisions that we hope they don"t find us until the thaw.
2) A weekend of sex with 3 other guys in a hotel suite.
3) Having so much cum up my ass that it runs down my legs.
4) Being covered with cum from my face to my crotch.
5) Taking 2 cocks up the ass at once.
6) Getting skullfucked, sucked, and buttfucked at the same time.
7) My fistfucker jacks off inside me.
8) A guy with a HUGE cock shoves into me up to his balls, then pops his balls into me and fucks me, Al Parker -style, with his "whole unit."
9) Fondling my guy"s crotch while he cums in his jeans.
10) Fucking a cum-filled hole.
11) Throat-fucking my guy and cumming down his gullet.
12) Having slikstik cum up my ass while he"s all "wired up."
Blindfolds, Butt Play, Breast/Nipple Clamps, Exhibitionism, Fisting, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Handcuffs/Shackles, Leather, Massage, Mutual Masturbation, Naturism/Nudism, Piss Play, Receiving Anal Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Rubber/PVC/Latex, Threesomes, Toys
Afternoon, Mornings, Weekends, Evenings, Noon, Late Night, Weekdays
Sex, How often?
3-5 times a week
Most Erogenous zones?
Butt, Ears, Inner thigh, Lips, Neck, Nipples
A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A moving vehicle, In the nature, A dressing room, A swimming pool/hot tub, An airplane, My bed, My desk at work, My yard, The beach, Under a waterfall
Dirty talk during sex?
Entirely depends on my mood
Making home videos/pics
Have a few videos of myself
Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Food for play
Food is for eating!
Blindfolds, Cock and Ball Toys, Collar and leash, Gags, Handcuffs/shackles, Harnesses, Masks, Medical gear, Nipple clamps
Porn Movies, Which?
Amateur, Anal, BBW, Bondage, Cumshots, Fetish, Gay, Hard, Mature, Rimming
Porn Movies, With?
By myself, With a partner, With someone else