Usually naked, or wannabe naked, sometimes happy guy in San Francisco
I"m a 50yo guy, happily attached to a wonderful guy, but free to play safely. Living in San Francisco. I love this site and anything that combines nudity, some humor and occasionally a little kink.
Dominant 13ths and interrupted cadences. Smiles. Guys, a smile is not a feminine thing, it conveys self-confidence, the most masculine of characteristics. Sparkling eyes that suggest that there is someone inside. Good, man-to-man, sexy conversation; nudity; discussion while doing really personal stuff; humor; I really, really do not care how big your dick is (though I would prefer it not to be grotesquely huge and prefer also that its size is not important to you.). While I enjoy watching barebacking, I also think it insane. For some reason, I find it highly erotic when a naked man squats down. Have a look at my photo sets to see what I mean. I also like looking at straight porn particularly when the male asshole comes into view unintentionally, but why, why, why are the women always looking directly at the camera?
Lots. LiveJasmin for a start. What a pain in the ass that is. Otherwise I guess I get turned off by women; clothes - particularly women's clothes; pain; scat; sounding; saline infusions (Ugh! I have no idea why those last two turn anyone on); girly men; overbuilt men who have taken lots of trouble to make their bodies look like a condom full of walnuts; underage anyone; guys who take themselves too seriously; guys who scowl at the camera while doing something fun like wanking (the scowl does not make you look more masculine, guys, it is more likely to make you look like an intellectually-challenged lesbian with a truck full of baggage and a droopy strap-on); bad spelling, wrong apostrophes and general illiteracy (completely forgiven if English is not your first language); guys who do not read, and, worse, guys who are scornful of the idea of reading a book and yet still expect to be taken seriously; oh, and guys who name themselves "hot" something or "sexy" something - those qualities are for others to decide, men! I have recently become amused and repelled by guys who, instead of saying something about themselves, fill their profiles with all the reasons that they will not be your friend or interact in any way. Lastly, what's going on with the guys whose profiles are full of photos and videos of men, but who describe themselves as bisexual? Time to come off the fence and see what everyone else can see already! I suppose these factors all come together to provide a short-cut to identifying total jerks. That probably gets me purged from most Christmas card lists, but hey it is who I am. Feel free to comment.
The Night of the Hunter; Witness For The Prosecution; Urbania; The History Boys; Shortbus; Eastern Promises; The End of the Affair;
Nudity, music, my boyfriend and my dog, in whatever order they happen to occur.
Classical; Opera; Interesting music of different types, but I have difficulty telling the difference between jazz and rap and noise.
A Dance to the Music of Time; Anna Karenina; Memoirs of Hadrian; Fugitive Pieces; The Almost Moon; Middlesex; The Elegance of the Hedgehog; To The Lighthouse; Driven to Distraction; The Deptford Trilogy of Robertson Davies (wow! If you haven"t read this, and if you have an attention span of more than 2 minutes, go for it!)
Time spent online?
An hour or so a day
English, French/Francais, Italian/Italiano
Clever, Obscure, Dry/Sarcastic
I'm a non-smoker
I'm a heavy social drinker
About my Partner
My partner is pretty much as ideal as you can get. I have been in love with him for nineteen years.
Male, Gay-Couple, Group
Few extra pounds
5 ft 8 in
Arms, Pits, Legs
Glasses or Contacts
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Arts/Museums, Books/Reading, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Movies (watching), Music/Concerts, Travel/Sightseeing
Live music/Music, Movies/Film, Symphony/Opera, Theater/Arts
Arts & Entertainment, Dramas
Classics, Film-Noir, Independent
Classical, Folk, International, Opera
Fiction, History, Non Fiction
Work & Living Environment
Live with spouse
Chinese, French, Greek, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Pizza, Seafood, Thai
I've already tried everything and will do it again!
Butt Play, Exhibitionism, Fisting, Group Sex, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Naturism/Nudism, Piss Play, Receiving Anal Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Threesomes, Toys
Sex, How often?
All the time
Practice Safe Sex
Most Erogenous zones?
Butt, Lips, Neck, Nipples
Dirty talk during sex?
Entirely depends on my mood
Willing to experiment
Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring
Porn Movies, Which?
Porn Movies, How often?
Once or twice a week