The Other Velvet Teddy Bear
43 years old, 6"4", African American Gay Male, recently relocated to Atlanta from Detroit, brown eyes, black short cut tapered hair, in school for Theatre and Psychology. I"m an entertainer...actor/singer/playwright/director/producer an online radio talk show host and an author. check me out at www.dishingtea.com
PHAT ASSES, MAN TITS, thick thighs, BIG BOIS (thick, chunky, husky, chubby, stocky) a SECRET passion is PRETTY FEET, PORN, SEX TALK, PHONE SEX, INTIMACY, COURTSHIP, Sexual Exploration!
SELFISH SEX, twinks, closed minded people, stupidity, dishonesty, deceivers, unkemptness, those who toy with emotions and affection!!!
The Bad Seed,(the original), Auntie Mame, Harlem Nights, Jackie"s Back, A Long Kiss Goodnight, The Color Purple, A Rage in Harlem, Eve"s Bayou, A Chorus Line, and many, many more!!!
I enjoy cooking, singing, going to cultural events, museums, art galleries, poetry/spoken word venues, bowling, playing cards (bid whist), old black and white movies, musicals, blaxplotation movies from the 70"s, GOOD, CULTURED, INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION, watching porn, eating ass, and the rest you"ll have to ask!!!
I"m musically eclectic with a special soft spot for old school and house music.....Patti LaBelle and Stephanie Mills, the "mother and daughter" of R&B music are my quintessential divas....and then comes a host of others...too many to name
"Awakenings-Epiphanies Along a Spiritual Journey" by Big Meach, I love anything by Iyanla Vanzant, E.Lynn Harris, Omar Tyree, and those books which encourage self awareness and spiritual growth. I also like mysteries.
Time spent online?
Several hours a day
Campy (Cheesy), Goofy, Clever, Dry/Sarcastic
I'm a non-smoker
I'm a light social drinker
Kids, How many?
About my Partner
I am having a BLAST being SINGLE with BENEFRIENDS!!! NO committments, just a mutual understanding and long lasting FRIENDSHIP with a little (or a lot) EXTRA...wink wink...
One day I will settle down with my Mr. Right for ME. but until then, I enjoy beneFRIENDS!!!
Male, Gay-Couple, Group
Erotic Chat/Email/Phone Fantasies, 1-on-1 sex, Discreet Relationship, Group sex(3 or more), Exhibitionism & Voyeurism
Whole package matters more
Does size matter?
What he does with it is what matters
I dont want my partner to smoke, I dont mind if my partner smokes lightly
I dont want my partner to drink, I dont mind if my partner drinks lightly
I like all my bodyparts!
6 ft 4 in
Glasses or Contacts
HIV/AIDS negative and tested regularly, Free from sexually transmitted diseases and tested regularly
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Antiques/Collectibles, Arts/Museums, Board games, Books/Reading, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Healthy living, Movies (making), Movies (watching), Music/Concerts, Nightclubs/Dancing, Photography, Playing cards, Shopping, Television (watching)
Comics/Anime, Dancing, Live music/Music, Movies/Film, Symphony/Opera, T.V./Videos/DVDs, Theater/Arts, Wine tasting
Arts & Entertainment, Cartoons, Documentary/Learning, Dramas, Movie Channels, News, Sit-coms, Soap Operas, Soft Porn, Stand Up Comedy, Talk Shows, Variety Shows
Action, Adventure, Animation, Family, Classics, Comedy, Crime, Documentary, Drama, Fantasy, Film-Noir, Independent, Musicals, Mystery, Porn, Romance, Science Fiction, Thrillers
Alternative Rock, Blues, Broadway & Vocalists, Christian & Gospel, Classic Rock, Classical, Country, Dance & DJ, Electronic/Techno/House, Folk, Hard Rock & Metal, Hip-Hop, Indie, International, Jazz, Latin, Miscellaneous, New Age, Opera, Pop/Top 40, R&B/Soul, Rap, Reggae, Punk, Rock 'n Roll, Soundtracks
Biographies, Erotica, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Magazines, Mystery, Non Fiction, Self-Help, Thrillers
Work & Living Environment
American, Chinese, Fast food, Italian, Mexican, Pizza, Vegetarian
I'll try most anything once
Butt Play, Fisting, Food Play, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Leather, Massage, Mutual Masturbation, Naturism/Nudism, Phone Sex, Public sex, Receiving Anal Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Toys
Afternoon, Mornings, Weekends, Evenings, Noon, Late Night, Weekdays
Sex, How often?
3-5 times a week
Practice Safe Sex
Most Erogenous zones?
Butt, Inner thigh, Lips, Nipples
Boss/Employee, Cop/prisoner, Knight/Damsel in Distress, Police/Civilian, Prostitute/Client
A movie theatre, A moving vehicle, In the nature, A dressing room, A swimming pool/hot tub, My bed, My desk at work, My yard, The beach, Under a waterfall
Dirty talk during sex?
Is a must during sex!
Making home videos/pics
Haven't found a parter do it with yet
Bars or pubs, Night clubs, Adult theatres, Dungeon clubs, Strip clubs
Anal/Climax beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Food for play
Apple pie, Cherries, Chocolate sauce, Cucumbers, Frosting, Grapes, Ice, Ice cream, Popsicles, Strawberries, Whipped cream
Ass slappers, Blindfolds, Cat tails, Nipple clamps, Silk scarves
Porn Movies, Which?
Amateur, Anal, BBW, Bisexual, Cumshots, Interracial, Fetish, Gay, Hard, Mature, Rimming, Soft, Transsexual
Porn Movies, With?
By myself, With a partner, With someone else
Porn Movies, How often?
All the time!