Southern transplant to the Pacific Northwest. Furry, friendly, playful, educated enough to value common sense. Lover, husband, friend, brother, uncle, buddy, playmate, romantic horndog. I make work that people call art and that I just call "work".
After nearly 14 years together my Man & I got legally married.Now we can live out the fantasy of two married men getting it on. Sex feels dirtier that way. We have an extended family of men we hang out with, mutually support, celebrate, raise hell, and play with. Every now and again we play on our own, together and separately. We don't lie to each other - no secrets, no jealousy.
He's on here as nwperv so feel free to check him out and say hey.
I'm at that age where I can say "I'm too old/too young for this shit", including my own bad behavior. Not perfect, but I pay attention. I never take a compliment of any kind for granted. Most of my work and life takes place away from the screen, but I'll do my best to acknowledge/return messages, etc, and say "thank you" in a timely manner.
If something's not to my taste, I keep my virtual mouth shut and focus on what bones me. Hating isn't pretty. In fact, it makes the hater uglier than his target.
I appreciate the compliment of a friend invite, but if your profile has nothing of you or about you in it I'll decline the offer. I've made very rare exceptions for guys who've added my pix or vid to their favorites and/or who've been extremely complimentary, and have at least one self-photo.
If you send me an invite & we have a particular fetish or something else in common, feel free to tell me in as much dirty detail as possible. I love hearing what gives my buddies pleasure and comparing notes.
Healthy HIV+ and very careful with my neg buddies, tested regularly for all STD's. I know how to take care of my health, maximize pleasure, and minimize risk. I've known guys who claimed to be neg who only found out otherwise in the hospital, and men in their 40s or 50s needing a crash course in basic safer sex. I don't condemn, but I don't get it, either. With me, what I tell you is what you get.
First impressions: eyes, hands, mouth, voice, scent, butt. Smiling is still the best and cheapest way to improve your looks. Respect for oneself and others. Kissing and nip work open a lot of doors. I have a hopeless boner for guy stuff. Gentleman, stud-next-door, bluecollar, country boy, bar trash: tasty choices on the male menu - and all sampled firsthand. I've felt perfectly at home at a black-tie dinner, or shoveling horseshit in a barn. Not at the same time - but it would make a hell of a scene.
Boots, jeans, ballcaps, suits, sweat, socks, pits, underwear, headtrips, affection, grappling, making out. Men who ask for what they want. Flirting, sexual tension, men who smell like men, gasping at that first kiss 'cause we both want it so bad. Down and dirty mansex, power exchange, BDSM...or a long slow sensual afternoon/evening of old-fashioned lovemaking. The rest is negotiable. One thing you won't hear me say is "eeew". Ever.
I'm kind of a gearhead and of course love butt naked dudes (well, yeah). I also love getting myself and you from A to B in all kinds of ways. I talk about my M/M stripping stuff a bit more in the album "Ripping Good Time".
Men who say "please" and "thank you": excellent words for navigating XTube, not to mention life.
I've played with men of diverse races, ages, shapes, sizes, degrees of abled-ness, and butchness.
Did I mention mustache rides?
Liars, tweakers, posers, drunks, unchecked ego, treating others badly, slighting or insulting my husband, family, or friends, passive-agressiveness, lack of self-respect and self-care, ignorance of consent, psychotic infatuation, HIV phobia, racism, ageism, misogyny, classism, withholding, prissiness, bad kissers.
Dudes who wig out over what other guys are into. Seriously? I didn't think 13-year-old girls were allowed on this site. Just remember that somebody somewhere thinks you're disgusting, too.
Spiritual but not religious
Campy (Cheesy), Goofy, Clever, Obscure, Slapstick
I'm a cigar/pipe smoker
I don't drink at all
About my Partner
I live with him, but what I/we look for in potential playmates is largely covered by the "Turn Ons" category.
Male, Gay-Couple, Group
Age of partner from
Age of partner to
Mature & handsome
Erotic Chat/Email/Phone Fantasies, 1-on-1 sex, Group sex(3 or more), Bondage & Discipline, Exhibitionism & Voyeurism, Miscellaneous Fetishes, Other "Alternative" Activities
Whole package matters more
Partners genitals should be
Does size matter?
What he does with it is what matters
I like all my bodyparts!
5 ft 9 in
Unshaved and bushy
Arms, Buns, Chest, Treasure trail, Pits, Tummy, Legs
Glasses or Contacts
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Alternative Rock, Blues, Broadway & Vocalists, Classic Rock, Classical, Country, Dance & DJ, Electronic/Techno/House, Folk, Indie, Industrial, International, Jazz, Latin, R&B/Soul, Reggae, Punk, Rock 'n Roll, Soundtracks
Work & Living Environment
Live with spouse
American, Cajun, Chinese, French, Greek, Japanese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Persian, Pizza, Seafood, Thai
Favorite sexual fantasy
Butt Play, Dominance/Discipline, Exhibitionism, Fisting, Glory Holes, Group Sex, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Leather, Making Movies, Massage, Mutual Masturbation, Naturism/Nudism, Piss Play, Receiving Anal Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Sadomasochism, Threesomes, Toys
Afternoon, Weekends, Evenings, Late Night, Weekdays
Most Erogenous zones?
Belly, Butt, Feet, Lips, Nipples, Toes
Boss/Employee, Cop/prisoner, Doctor/Nurse, Doctor/Patient, Jailer/Prisoner, Police/Civilian, Prisoner/Prisoner, Sergeant/Ensign, Stranger/stranger, Teacher/Student
A dark back alley, In the nature, A dressing room, A swimming pool/hot tub, My bed, My desk at work, My yard, The beach, Under a waterfall
Dirty talk during sex?
Sometimes I really get into it
Making home videos/pics
Have a growing collection
Bars or pubs
Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Swings
Food for play
Food is for eating!
Ass slappers, Cock and Ball Toys, Gags, Handcuffs/shackles, Medical gear, Nipple clamps, Paddles
Porn Movies, Which?
Amateur, Anal, Bondage, Cumshots, Interracial, Gay, Mature, Rimming
Porn Movies, With?
By myself, With a partner
Porn Movies, How often?
Once or twice a week