Who lives by the [s]word...
2013-05-19: I"ve been sober close on 3 years, now. I don"t smoke or do drugs, either. None of it. I"m single, but have people in my life. I mean, besides me. And I care about them.
Men, sex, love, family, babies, wholesomeness of all sorts. Lots of what people call "kink", too, I guess.
Fake moans, groans, and dirty-talk, in porno movies or live-action sex. Anything that makes me think one or more participants is unwilling, exploited, or used; or that one or more such participants is being any kind of obnoxious.
Six Degrees of Separation;
Creation (about Charles Darwin);
A Beautiful Mind;
"Dirty Rotten Bastards"ï Jalif Studios
Atlas Shrugged [thought/writing],
Lord of the Rings (trilogy plus The Hobbit and The Silmarillion), [story/thought/writing]
The Crystal Cave (tetralogy), [story/thought/writing]
The Origin of Consciousness in the Breakdown of the Bicameral Mind, [thought/writing]
The Egyptian, [story/thought/writing]
Addie Pray, [story/writing]
The Witch of Blackbird Pond, [story/writing]
The Weirdstone of Brisingamen, [story/writing]
Noble House, [story/thought/writing]
Tom Sawyer, [story/thought/writing]
Politics and Power, [thought/writing]
The Romanovs, [story/writing]
Old Yeller, [story/thought/writing]
Dialogues with the Devil [thought/writing],
My Side of the Mountain, [story/writing]
The Comancheros, [story/writing]
Interview with a Vampire, [story/thought/writing]
(contrast w/ The Vampire Lestat, and note parallel to The Wicked Day as contrasted w/ Arthurian romances]
By the way. If you"re an American, and you"re younger than 51 years old, I"d like to ask you to consider something, regarding whatever American history classes you might have taken, in your lifetime. I"m not aware of anyone who goes around calling Moses a murdering cattle-rustler, although the Bible does say that he did kill that Egyptian; and that he did set off, across the desert, with a herd of Pharaoh"s human "live-stock". When your American history teacher tells you that our Founding Fathers were smugglers, slave-owners, and all kinds of other, unsavory things, will you please pause to consider that, in some people"s minds, "by their fruits, ye shall know them" is a good means of evaluating the impact of others" lives upon the world around us.
Is it possible that the USA is not (totally and completely, anyhow) the most bitter, rotten fruit of man"s mind and imagination, ever to have ruined an apple-barrel? I"m not saying that we have to look around, for examples of others that might be worse than we are; I am, however, suggesting that there might be something good, about the USA, that we didn"t swipe from somebody else. (Yeah, that means "something other than the territory outside Alaska.)
I"m suggesting that, maybe, the USA is actually worth-while; and that it"s good, that the USA came into being and has been among the world"s wealthiest and most-powerful nations for a long time. Because, although we"ve made mistakes, as all other countries have, with regard to the things we"ve done and failed to do, we certainly had the means to do a lot worse, had we wished to intentionally wreak havoc, rather than conduct ourselves as civilized persons ought, in the world.
Time spent online?
Several hours a day
Campy (Cheesy), Goofy, Clever, Obscure, Dry/Sarcastic
I'm a non-smoker
I don't drink at all
About my Partner
Sane, sober, compatible with me. Someone who wants me and whom I want.
Male, Bi-Couple, Gay-Couple, Group
1-on-1 sex, Discreet Relationship, Group sex(3 or more), Miscellaneous Fetishes
Whole package matters more
Does size matter?
What he does with it is what matters
I dont want my partner to smoke
I dont want my partner to drink
I like all my bodyparts!
6 ft 1 in
Earrings, Body Piercings
Glasses or Contacts
Nothing at all!
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Antiques/Collectibles, Arts/Museums, Board games, Books/Reading, Business news, Camping/Outdoors, Cars, Coffee and conversation, Computer programming, Cooking, Fashion, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Healthy living, Motorcycles, Movies (making), Movies (watching), Music/Concerts, Nightclubs/Dancing, Painting, Photography, Playing cards, Politics, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports
Dancing, Live music/Music, Movies/Film, Nightclubs/Parties, Symphony/Opera, T.V./Videos/DVDs, Theater/Arts
Arts & Entertainment, Cartoons, Documentary/Learning, Music Channels, Movie Channels, News, Sci-Fi, Sit-coms, Stand Up Comedy, Variety Shows
Action, Adventure, Animation, Family, Classics, Comedy, Documentary, Drama, Fantasy, Independent, Musicals, Mystery, Porn, Romance, Science Fiction, Westerns
Alternative Rock, Broadway & Vocalists, Classic Rock, Classical, Country, Dance & DJ, Electronic/Techno/House, Folk, Hip-Hop, International, Latin, Miscellaneous, New Age, Opera, Pop/Top 40, R&B/Soul, Reggae, Rock 'n Roll, Soundtracks
Biographies, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Magazines, Non Fiction, Sci-Fi, Science/Technology
Work & Living Environment
Less Than $25,000
American, Cajun, Chinese, Fast food, French, Greek, Japanese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, Mongolian, Persian, Pizza, Seafood, Thai, Vegetarian, Vietnameese
Favorite sexual fantasy
Think of the Knights Templar or some kind of Asian Temple (like in the 1970s-era TV series "Kung Fu"), and add sex as an allowable interaction among members of the household.
The image is supposed to connote all of the following:
a) some kind of shared ethical sensibility, some devotion, on the part of all members of the household, to some unifying purpose or mission;
b) some kind of "trust" and "teamwork" orientation, to the point at which all members of the household consider themselves to have placed their lives in the hands of the other members of the household.
c) physical and mental/spiritual/emotional training consistent with achieving and maintaining a high degree of competence in the fulfillment of the mission of the household.
d) a household that, as an entity, not only has the potential to live until humankind ceases to exist, in the Universe; but, also, demonstrates awareness of the existence of that potential, in the everyday conduct of the business of that household and of the individual members of that household.
e) mutual love, fond regard, friendship, respect, etc., on the part of members of the household.
Stuff like that. Orgies with meaning, I guess. Fetishes and other play, but with purpose.
Obviously, insularity must represent a danger â€” it always has, with regard to such households, in the past. And that danger might prove so great as to destroy the household, completely, as has happened, with regard to past households. Yet, absent that insularity (or, at least, some sort of exclusivity) is the individuality â€” and pride in that individuality â€” of that household even described, much less maintained? I don"t know.
Governance and maintenance of the household must be a matter of concern. Attending to those matters must prove satisfying, or those matters will be neglected. The consequence of that neglect will be disaster brought upon the household. So, it ain"t all sex; it"s a gay family that, although all of whose members have reached the age of consent â€” and, thus, there would be no minor children within it â€” might prove as cohesive and "immortal" as any "straight" family now proves.
And I guess that"s the genesis of the fantasy. A band of brothers who love one another, rather than fuck each other over.
Sleeping, either in a "common room" or a private bower, and awakened by some anonymous caress to which you willingly, gladly, joyfully respond. The fingertips of any of the men with whom you live slide into the crack of your ass, in the morning; and you awaken, smile, and kinda ease back onto those fingers, with or without even opening your eyes, to seehose fingers they are.
In medieval Japan, any person would allow himself or herself to be beheaded, on a moment"s notice, by a samurai; in this household, it would be more likely to be other acts â€” such as sexual acts â€” demonstrative of that same level of faith and trust in oneself and in another.
Whether such a household can exist in democratic or republican form, rather than in some kind of oligarchy or other class-based hierarchy is unknown to me. But it"s interesting to consider.
I've already tried everything and will do it again!
Blindfolds, Butt Play, Dominance/Discipline, Exhibitionism, Fisting, Food Play, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Handcuffs/Shackles, Leather, Massage, Mutual Masturbation, Naturism/Nudism, Piss Play, Public sex, Receiving Anal Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Threesomes, Toys
Afternoon, Mornings, Weekends, Evenings, Noon, Late Night, Weekdays
Sex, How often?
All the time
Practice Safe Sex
Most Erogenous zones?
Belly, Butt, Feet, Toes
Police/Civilian, Priest/Confessionalist, Prostitute/Client, Sergeant/Ensign, Trainer/Dog, I'm not into role playing
A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A moving vehicle, In the nature, A rollercoaster, A dressing room, A swimming pool/hot tub, An airplane, My bed, My desk at work, My yard, The beach, Under a waterfall
Dirty talk during sex?
It's not for me at all
Making home videos/pics
Have a few videos of myself
Night clubs, Fetish parties, Dungeon clubs, Strip clubs
Anal/Climax beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Swings, Vaginas, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Food for play
Apple pie, Bananas, Carrots, Cherries, Chocolate sauce, Cucumbers, Frosting, Grapes, Ice, Ice cream, Jello, Peanut butter, Popsicles, Pudding, Strawberries, Whipped cream, Food is for eating!
Blindfolds, Cat tails, Chastity devices, Cock and Ball Toys, Collar and leash, Handcuffs/shackles, Harnesses, Masks, Silk scarves, Whips
Porn Movies, Which?
Amateur, Anal, Bisexual, Bondage, Interracial, Fetish, Gay, Hard, Mature, Rimming, Soft
Porn Movies, With?
By myself, With a partner, With someone else
Porn Movies, How often?
All the time!
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