What a Difference a Day Makes
2013-05-19: I"ve been sober close on 3 years, now. Anniversary is 15 July. I don"t smoke or do drugs, either. None of it. I"m single, but do have people, in my life, to whose support I am committed to contributing.
9 January 2014: Still clean and sober. Still not smoking. Living in Philly, now. Looking for work in IT. Willing to relocate. Being homeless is no fun.
26 June 2015: Self-supporting & no longer homeless [since April]. Worked my way out of it. Still a ways to go. But, life is good.
Campy (Cheesy), Goofy, Clever, Obscure, Dry/Sarcastic
I'm a non-smoker
I don't drink at all
About my Partner
Male, Gay-Couple, Group
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Arts/Museums, Board games, Books/Reading, Camping/Outdoors, Cars, Coffee and conversation, Computer programming, Cooking, Gardening/Landscaping, Healthy living, Movies (watching), Music/Concerts, Photography, Politics, Television (watching), Watching sports
Live music/Music, Movies/Film, Symphony/Opera, T.V./Videos/DVDs, Theater/Arts
Broadway & Vocalists, Christian & Gospel, Classic Rock, Classical, Country, Dance & DJ, International, Latin, New Age, Opera, Pop/Top 40, Rock 'n Roll, Soundtracks
Fantasy, Fiction, History, Mystery, Non Fiction, Sci-Fi
Favorite sexual fantasy
Think of the Knights Templar or some kind of Asian Temple (like in the 1970s-era TV series "Kung Fu"), and add sex as an allowable interaction among members of the household.
The image is supposed to connote all of the following:
a) some kind of shared ethical sensibility, some devotion, on the part of all members of the household, to some unifying purpose or mission;
b) some kind of "trust" and "teamwork" orientation, to the point at which all members of the household consider themselves to have placed their lives in the hands of the other members of the household.
c) physical and mental/spiritual/emotional training consistent with achieving and maintaining a high degree of competence in the fulfillment of the mission of the household.
d) a household that, as an entity, not only has the potential to live until humankind ceases to exist, in the Universe; but, also, demonstrates awareness of the existence of that potential, in the everyday conduct of the business of that household and of the individual members of that household.
e) mutual love, fond regard, friendship, respect, etc., on the part of members of the household.
Stuff like that. Orgies with meaning, I guess. Fetishes and other play, but with purpose.
Obviously, insularity must represent a danger — it always has, with regard to such households, in the past. And that danger might prove so great as to destroy the household, completely, as has happened, with regard to past households. Yet, absent that insularity (or, at least, some sort of exclusivity) is the individuality — and pride in that individuality — of that household even described, much less maintained? I don"t know.
Governance and maintenance of the household must be a matter of concern. Attending to those matters must prove satisfying, or those matters will be neglected. The consequence of that neglect will be disaster brought upon the household. So, it ain"t all sex; it"s a gay family that, although all of whose members have reached the age of consent — and, thus, there would be no minor children within it — might prove as cohesive and "immortal" as any "straight" family now proves.
And I guess that"s the genesis of the fantasy. A band of brothers who love one another, rather than fuck each other over.
Sleeping, either in a "common room" or a private bower, and awakened by some anonymous caress to which you willingly, gladly, joyfully respond. The fingertips of any of the men with whom you live slide into the crack of your ass, in the morning; and you awaken, smile, and kinda ease back onto those fingers, with or without even opening your eyes, to seehose fingers they are.
In medieval Japan, any person would allow himself or herself to be beheaded, on a moment"s notice, by a samurai; in this household, it would be more likely to be other acts — such as sexual acts — demonstrative of that same level of faith and trust in oneself and in another.
Whether such a household can exist in democratic or republican form, rather than in some kind of oligarchy or other class-based hierarchy is unknown to me. But it"s interesting to consider.
I've already tried everything and will do it again!
Blindfolds, Butt Play, Dominance/Discipline, Fisting, Food Play, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Leather, Massage, Mutual Masturbation, Naturism/Nudism, Piss Play, Receiving Anal Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Threesomes, Toys
Afternoon, Mornings, Weekends, Evenings, Noon, Late Night, Weekdays
Sex, How often?
All the time
Practice Safe Sex
Most Erogenous zones?
Back, Belly, Butt, Feet, Toes
Master/Slave, Police/Civilian, Priest/Confessionalist, Sergeant/Ensign, Trainer/Dog, I'm not into role playing
A swimming pool/hot tub, My bed, My yard, Under a waterfall
Dirty talk during sex?
It's not for me at all
Making home videos/pics
Have a few videos of myself
Porn Movies, How often?
Blaze2020 - Male , 54
Maryland, United States
Member for 8 years
Sexual orientation: Gay
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