Lifestyle Dominant Woman in Coastal Orange County CA
Because of the un-user friendly photo uploader on this site, I'm not going to be updating any of my photos or vid clips here. If you want to find me elsewhere, google BeachMystress.
For those of you who can't be bothered to read the whole profile, read the short list below before you write to me!
* I'm not seeking. I am not interested if you think you'd be perfect for me or if my play photos or video clips turn you on. If you want YOUR fantasy played out, go pay a Pro.
* I am NOT a public utility, nor am I life support for a whip/strapon/flogger.
*Just because I am kinky doesn't mean I welcome photos of stranger's sex organs.
I'm intelligent, creative, married and monogamous; a real time, sadistic, Lifestyle Dominant Woman involved in a 24/7 TPE (Total Power Exchange) marriage! This means I am the head of my household. My collared submissive husband is my property and does all the "wife" chores such housework and cooking. No, this doesn't mean he crawls around on all fours, sleeps on the floor beside our bed and is kept naked all the time- well, ok, he is naked most of the time. Our relationship is real, not fantasy. It means he is attentive to my needs and meets them before I even realize I have them. Our relationship is very much like a traditional 1950's one with him in the role of the "wife." No, I don't cross dress him, but he waits on me hand and foot , as well as dealing with my sadistic and sexual desires.
I first started showing dominant sexual behavior at 17, when I talked a boyfriend into cross dressing (although I now prefer masculine subs) but only identified myself with being "Domme" in 2000. I'm a strong believer in SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) play, but also respect RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) if the people are truly aware of the risks involved. I am mildly active in the So Cal scene and occasionally attend munches and events. We also occasionally play at one of the local dungeons.
- male screams, cries and moans,
- Pain/Sadism/masochism - I'm a bit of a sadist and loooove the screams a sub makes when taking consensual pain for me.
- clothespins -I seem to have a slight fetish on that front..
- having my feet rubbed -NOT SUCKED.
- anal/strap-on play
- tease and deny
- being pampered by my sub - including footcare, washing my hair, waiting on me, opening and holding doors, cooking, cleaning, laundry and such.
- photographing my sub at "play"
Dick pix from strangers! Men who assume that my being kinky allows them to be crass.
Some Like It Hot, Harold & Maude, Harvey, Dirty Dancing, Hunt for Red October, True Lies, North by Northwest, Matrix, Tomb Raider, To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything Julie Newmar
Favorite Authors: Kelly Armstrong, Nevada Barr, Carol Lea Benjamin, Jan Burke, Tim Cockey, Patricia Cornwell, Janet Evonovich, Roberta Gellis, Laurell K. Hamilton, Charlaine Harris, Kim Harrison, Sue Henry, Carl Hiaasen, Nina Kiriki Hoffman, Iris Johansen, Barbara Kingsolver, Charles Knief, Virginia Lanier, Martha C. Lawrence, T. Jefferson Parker, Chris Rogers, Bertrice Small, Mark Sumner, Vernor Vinge
BDSM Books I own: Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns, The Loving Dominant, The New Topping Book, The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners, The Art of Sensual Female Dominance, The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance, The Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment, S&M: Studies in Dominance and Submission, Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual, Training With Miss Abernathy- workbook, SM 101: A Realistic Introduction, The Manipulated Mind: Brainwashing, Conditioning and Indoctrination, Knots & Splices, Introducing Neuro-Linguistic Programming: Psychological Skills for Understanding and Influencing People and Words That Change Minds: Mastering the Language of Influence, Masochism: A Jungian View and Dominant Women Submissive Men: An Exploration in Erotic Dominance and Submission.
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