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Lifestyle Dominant Woman in Coastal Orange County CA


Because of the un-user friendly photo uploader on this site, I'm not going to be updating any of my photos or vid clips here. If you want to find me elsewhere, google BeachMystress.

 

For those of you who can't be bothered to read the whole profile, read the short list below before you write to me!

* I'm not seeking. I am not interested if you think you'd be perfect for me or if my play photos or video clips turn you on. If you want YOUR fantasy played out, go pay a Pro.

* I am NOT a public utility, nor am I life support for a whip/strapon/flogger.

*Just because I am kinky doesn't mean I welcome photos of stranger's sex organs.

I'm intelligent, creative, married and monogamous; a real time, sadistic, Lifestyle Dominant Woman involved in a 24/7 TPE (Total Power Exchange) marriage! This means I am the head of my household. My collared submissive husband is my property and does all the "wife" chores such housework and cooking. No, this doesn't mean he crawls around on all fours, sleeps on the floor beside our bed and is kept naked all the time- well, ok, he is naked most of the time. Our relationship is real, not fantasy. It means he is attentive to my needs and meets them before I even realize I have them. Our relationship is very much like a traditional 1950's one with him in the role of the "wife." No, I don't cross dress him, but he waits on me hand and foot , as well as dealing with my sadistic and sexual desires.

I first started showing dominant sexual behavior at 17, when I talked a boyfriend into cross dressing (although I now prefer masculine subs) but only identified myself with being "Domme" in 2000. I'm a strong believer in SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) play, but also respect RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) if the people are truly aware of the risks involved. I am mildly active in the So Cal scene and occasionally attend munches and events. We also occasionally play at one of the local dungeons.


Turn Ons


  • CBT,
  • male screams, cries and moans,
  • Pain/Sadism/masochism - I'm a bit of a sadist and loooove the screams a sub makes when taking consensual pain for me.
  • clothespins -I seem to have a slight fetish on that front..
  • having my feet rubbed -NOT SUCKED.
  • flogging/whipping/caning
  • spanking/paddling
  • anal/strap-on play
  • tease and deny
  • being pampered by my sub - including footcare, washing my hair, waiting on me, opening and holding doors, cooking, cleaning, laundry and such.
  • photographing my sub at "play"
 

Turn Offs


Dick pix from strangers! Men who assume that my being kinky allows them to be crass.

Movies


Some Like It Hot, Harold & Maude, Harvey, Dirty Dancing, Hunt for Red October, True Lies, North by Northwest, Matrix, Tomb Raider, To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything Julie Newmar

Books


Favorite Authors: Kelly Armstrong, Nevada Barr, Carol Lea Benjamin, Jan Burke, Tim Cockey, Patricia Cornwell, Janet Evonovich, Roberta Gellis, Laurell K. Hamilton, Charlaine Harris, Kim Harrison, Sue Henry, Carl Hiaasen, Nina Kiriki Hoffman, Iris Johansen, Barbara Kingsolver, Charles Knief, Virginia Lanier, Martha C. Lawrence, T. Jefferson Parker, Chris Rogers, Bertrice Small, Mark Sumner, Vernor Vinge

BDSM Books I own: Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns, The Loving Dominant, The New Topping Book, The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners, The Art of Sensual Female Dominance, The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance, The Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment, S&M: Studies in Dominance and Submission, Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual, Training With Miss Abernathy- workbook, SM 101: A Realistic Introduction, The Manipulated Mind: Brainwashing, Conditioning and Indoctrination, Knots & Splices, Introducing Neuro-Linguistic Programming: Psychological Skills for Understanding and Influencing People and Words That Change Minds: Mastering the Language of Influence, Masochism: A Jungian View and Dominant Women Submissive Men: An Exploration in Erotic Dominance and Submission.

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Beach Mystress - Santa Barbara CBT Cock Beating
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Beach Mystress - Santa Barbara more CBT
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Beach Mystress - Santa Barbara CBT
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How Much is that Doggie in the Window
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Beach Mystress, Anal, Figging
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Beach Mystress, caning, You'd think it hurt
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Beach Mystress, CBT, Ballbanger
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Beach Mystress, whip, Cock Whipping
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Beach mystress, whip, subbiedance
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Beach Mystress, CBT, Happy Birthday Jada
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Beach Mystress, cbt, Don't touch me
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Beach Mystress, CBT, Zipper Removal
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Beach Mystress, CBT, Not That Bad
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Beach Mystress, Crop, One for NOLA
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BBeach Mystress, Spanking, Oar Paddle
3 years ago
Beach Mystress, whip, Cock Whipping
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1 year ago

hi if your in santa barbara email me?

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1 year ago

if you ever need a sub bitch boy for photos, im your man!

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2 years ago

thanks for the add, hot profile, nice pics, kinky videos, check out my latest videos n pictures of me playing with dildos and squirting water out of my ass, I am sure you will enjoy....

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2 years ago

good work

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3 years ago

hello from an old friend and admirer from a few years back.  love Your vids as always.  good to see You again

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5 years ago

Hi MsBeach! I love your profile here and on Flickr. You are quite an amazing and gorgeous Dominant Woman. I admire your intelligence, power, and beauty. I just wanted to share that with you. Have a wonderful day! :P ~*jamie*~

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5 years ago

Thanks for the comment on my photos.  I appreciate your great suggestion!!!

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5 years ago

Dear Ms BeachMystress Mlady i really enjoy your work and your thoughts on our way of life thank you for being you MLady

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5 years ago

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5 years ago

love your pics and hot hot video ... thanks for posting

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5 years ago

Dear Beach Mystress,

THat is the HOTTEST video on this site !!
Thank you for sharing with us.  I can only HOPE to experience what your "Bunny" was able to receive.  Please post more when you have the time.

 

Thanks again

-L

 

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5 years ago

I was a member of your yahoo group a long time ago. I am so glad to have found you again!! You do the best vids of anyone. Your voice is great, you talk a lot, your creative. I hope you post lots and lots of vids here!!!

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5 years ago

http://www.xtube.com

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5 years ago

thank you for adding me Mistress, although i know its not a possibility, it would be an honor to be used by you

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5 years ago

WOW, you have an incredible collection here!  Love seeing your nails tormenting helpless cock and balls.  You really got me turned on, you have a very, very, very lucky boi! 

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5 years ago

Thanks for the add sexy lady, if u have N E  special request let me no

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5 years ago

http://www.xtube.com a true gift that the two of you share and you can Tell in just the one video that you are a special women,
its a blessing good luck

pet longing to be owned,theodore

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5 years ago

Wow, what a hot profile. nice list of turn-ons. Terrific classy photos. EXCELLENT.!!!

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5 years ago

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Your friend

Sonny

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5 years ago

great vid love to see more tkx form a ass sub

 

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5 years ago

Very nice work you are showing here Mystress. My compliments and a lot of respect

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5 years ago

Love those pics of your hubbys package all laced up !!  Would love to learn how to do that to my hubby !!

Thanks for the add

xoxo 

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5 years ago

nice pic, add me to your yahoo or msn list (if you want)

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5 years ago

http://www.xtube.com words of caring yet demading how your he will perform for you and please you at any cost

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5 years ago

Thanks for the add. Love your content.

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5 years ago

thanks for the add and the complament on the pic

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5 years ago

Too often people can judge others' lives by their own opinions and experiences. Those same people tend to forget that the only person that lives your life is YOU. It is impossible to judge whether someone is being Dominant by their actions alone because the person judging has no clue what is going on in the head of the person thay are so "helpfully" offering their opinion to.

If you enjoy giving oral, then you enjoy it. It doesn't matter what others think. Are they living your life? I think not.

Besides, it is QUITE clear who has the control in your relationship, as evidenced by both your written words and your picture and video content. It seems that you and your husband have a very loving and wonderful relationship, something that most people want more than anything in the world, yet sometimes never find.

Thank you for posting such fine content into this community.

fenris

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5 years ago

hii
i love your pic
you want my
come to my yahoo mesnger
my name is there
yadidnae

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5 years ago

I would like to talk to you.

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5 years ago

Welcome! Kiss

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