I"m Otis and I"m not the best at these things (about mes always seem like you are selling yourself) I"m not the most confident or experienced person out there. I have been on sites like this for almost 10 years and have changed a lot in that time.
I now see myself as a potential Dom (even tho I love anal play for me and would love to be fucked with a strapon) thanks to one incredibly hot chat session with a good friend of mine (have known her for 7 years) where I took a Dom role and it quickly became very natural feeling and a huge rush for both of us and gave me a lot of confidence as well as turning me on more than I have been in years.
Unfortunately my friend wants to stay more or less strictly platonic so she suggested I try to find a chat partner, or maybe even a potential real life friend/ girlfriend/ lover, online.
I"m not always the best with my words, sometimes it seems my intelligence has come at the cost of social skills, which makes it hard for me to understand people (or say subtleties that would tell me a woman was interested in me)
I think the few women that have gotten to know me would say that I am true to myself to a fault, I"m honest, cute (cuter in person than my pics ever show), deep, intense at times, highly intelligent, sweet, caring, creative/ think of things people normally wouldn"t come up with or different ways to use common things, hysterical when the moment is right, and just an all around good guy that just doesn"t get it.
Also my late friend always said I was "the paladin type" always sacrificing myself to keep others (especially women) from feeling hurt because I know that pain all too well and can"t stand to see others hurt.
So even if you aren"t so sure about me, just get a hold of me and give me a chance to get to know you and get used to you a bit and let me get relaxed with you and start to enjoy each other. Best case you end up with a great friend/ lover, worst case I annoy you and you put me on ignore, not much to lose here.
If you want to get a hold of me outside of here, my yahoo messenger (I don"t have skype) is geemanotis
Biggest turn ons, outgoing women that are still sweethearts, blue eyes, large breasts, and a nice cunny. I love tall women too. I am starting to find ebony women incredibly sexy as well, and I can"t lie the bustier the better... Blame Easyriders magazine when I was 9 for that particular obsession.
SLUT SPOT OR TRAMP STAMP TATTOOS, UGLY BROWN PUSSIES THAT LOOK LIKE A 30 POUND LOBSTER WAS HANGING FROM IT FOR A WEEK, FAKE WOMEN, EXCEEDINGLY LOUD/SCREAMERS, CRAPPY IMPLANTS think Tara Reid, GIRLS THAT LOOK LIKE DRUG WHORES,OVERLY SKINNY GIRLS, SCAT MOVIES, FLAMBOYANT GUYS... OVERLY RELIGIOUS PPL, Bitchy women
welding, custom auto paint, hot rodding, model car building (I do ones I could never fit in but would love to own) fishing, shooting, hopefully shooting youtube videos soon.
mainly metal, but alot of old rock, blues, true motown R&B, jazz, soul
Sherilynn Kenyons"s Dark Hunter Series (what can I say Im an ancient history& mythology freak and love hearing about women being pleasured) redwall, lotr, your typical geek stories basically
Time spent online?
Several hours a day
Goofy, Clever, Obscure
I'm a non-smoker
I rarely drink
About my Partner
I would like to meet a woman that is interested in trading pics/vids and maybe helping me with my toy collection in exchange for pics or vids of me using them. I would love to find a woman with dark hair blue eyes and big breasts that would love to fuck me with a huge strapon while stroking me... I think that would feel amazing.
Or the much less picky and more realistic version:
I would like to find a woman that would be interested in being my online play partner and help me explore the Dom role with sexy chat scenes describing what we"d do together, or me telling her slutty things to do for me that she then either did on cam, or took pics/vids for me to prove that she did it. example: anything from going to work without panties on and masturbating in the work"s bathroom to going out with no bra/panties a short skirt and a big dildo in both holes or something along those lines. there are other ideas too but we would have to talk about those.
Female, Bi-Couple, Lesbian-Couple, Group
Age of partner from
Age of partner to
Erotic Chat/Email/Phone Fantasies, 1-on-1 sex, Bondage & Discipline, Exhibitionism & Voyeurism, Miscellaneous Fetishes, Other "Alternative" Activities
Whole package matters more
Partners genitals should be
Average, Trimmed to be neat, Completely shaved
I dont want my partner to smoke, I dont mind if my partner smokes lightly
I dont mind if my partner drinks lightly
Few extra pounds
6 ft 6 in
Chronic pain, Deafness, Emotional problems
Entertainment, Sports and Hobbies
Board games, Cars, Computer Games, Cooking, Fishing/Hunting, Motorcycles, Movies (making), Movies (watching), Music/Concerts, Watching sports
Comics/Anime, Computer games, Movies/Film
Anime, Cartoons, Documentary/Learning, Dramas, Movie Channels, Sports
Action, Adventure, Animation, Comedy, Fantasy, Porn, Science Fiction, War
Alternative Rock, Blues, Classic Rock, Classical, Hard Rock & Metal, R&B/Soul, Rock 'n Roll
Erotica, Fantasy, Magazines, Mystery, Non Fiction, Romance
Favorite sexual fantasy
The only thing I"ve ever gotten to try other than my hand is anal play for me, I love toys wish I had way more and would love to have a woman use them on me.
I fear I might"ve warped my fragile little mind cuz 3/4 of the time now when I dream about having sex I dream about a woman using a toy on me while giving me my first bj or riding me.
I have no clue what parts of me are really sensitive but dream about finding that out, and a woman trying to get me to moan (I fear making a sound when I masturbate)
Dominance/Discipline, Exhibitionism, Giving Anal Sex, Giving Oral Sex, Handcuffs/Shackles, Making Movies, Massage, Mutual Masturbation, Phone Sex, Piss Play, Public sex, Receiving Anal Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Strap-Ons, Threesomes, Toys
Afternoon, Mornings, Weekends, Evenings, Noon, Weekdays
Sex, How often?
Not a big part
Dirty talk during sex?
Haven't tried it I'm willing
Making home videos/pics
Have a few pics of myself
Anal/Climax beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons
Chastity devices, Cock and Ball Toys, Collar and leash, Nipple clamps
Porn Movies, Which?
Amateur, Anal, Bisexual, Busty women, Interracial, Teen (18+)