<br /> <font color="#3300cc" face="comic sans ms,sand" size="2">After I posted my 2 videos about anal exercise, I received several PM asking me more details about ass opening and possible pleasure for inexperienced bottoms.<br /> I decided to write my own personal experience here, so I don’t have to repeat each time and I hope I wont forget details.<br /> Please take this blog at the same time as a very subjective post and I hope you can find some educational purpose.</font>

<br /> <font color="#3300cc" face="comic sans ms,sand" size="2">1)    Beginning <br /> I never found any pleasure in having anything entering my ass until I turn 30 may be, I used to be top only and anybody who tried to approach my back door with anything else that a tongue would be severely punished :)</font>

<font color="#3300cc" face="comic sans ms,sand" size="2">Then around 30, I met this awesome guy who would become my BF, we were both tops unfortunately, so we had more vanilla plays for some times, until I decided someone had to surrender and I did.<br /> One day after playing for hours with his sex caressing my hole, I decided to seat on it. It was a Mix of pain and pleasure, the pleasure was more psychological, I was feeling finally my lovely BF inside me, we finally melted together. But honestly it was not easy. Lol specially that the said top was very well endowed ( I ve never been lucky when I decided to bottom, haha )<br /> <br /> 2)    First training<br /> I decided it was time to be serious about our love making so I started to train with small dildos and since I love clean plays (at least about love, may be not pure sex) I used to make enemas before. I noticed my sphincter would accept easier opening after enema. But the move of toy did not make me feel comfortable.<br /> I learnt something when I gave myself to my man, the problem was the opening, not really the move when we used good lubrication.<br /> <br /> 3)    Serious training<br /> So , I decided to practice for opening, not for moving penetration, if I can relax  my anal muscles enough, everything after should be OK. Now I did not want to lose elasticity on this level, even if I am excited by heavy fucking with big things and even fisting, I am not a big fan of ass opening 3 inches wide permanently.<br /> I used to practice every day with medium toys ( 1 ¼ - 1 ½ inches wide ) for a reasonable time, may be 20 minutes max.<br /> I teach my body to have pleasure while invaded. So a wank with a small butt plug was nice (not the uncomfortable moving, just the right opening and a small push on prostate) would make me cum nice and hard.<br /> When I train, I usually go with the same sequence : Enema, opening with medium toy, then with a real ‘nomal’ dick size toy and good lube ( I hate silicon lube ). I don’t move the toy inside my ass, except it is smooth ( not veiny dildo and so ). I end up with a small butt plug which is perfect for my ass and needs ( 1 ½ inch wide )</font>

<font color="#3300cc" face="comic sans ms,sand" size="2">The point is not to open like a mouth, the point is to keep up my hole with good habits ;)</font>

<font color="#3300cc" face="comic sans ms,sand" size="2">4)    More personal note<br /> Curiously, I am not a good bottom for men but bottoming for a woman with strap-on pushes me over the edge. For me and I talk FOR ME, there is a big psychological part in anal sex in addition to prostate stimulation. To enjoy it at the maximum, my first goal was not to get pleasure from being penetrated, but for a start to get rid of the pain.<br /> So now my ass is more cooperative than before but I am not a size queen, I don’t aim for the biggest things in my ass for sure.<br /> I practice my ass one time a week at ;east to keep it easy and I never had a huge gaping hole between my butts. Even after penetration, my ass loose his widening power in may be 10-20 minutes. What does it mean? It means I can take 2-3 fingers for this time, after it s back to normal: Pain. BTW, I dont like opening with finger, I prefer a big toy than a small finger, I don’t know if it has to do with knuckles or nails, it s just like this. Except when I am well opened :)</font>

<font color="#3300cc" face="comic sans ms,sand" size="2">5)    Now about prostate pleasure<br /> I met some nice cocks of every size in my life and I noticed that the pleasure I got from my ass has not really anything to do with size. It can be huge or small. The thing is the technique the top puts in his ramming. Even a small cock can make me go wild, just hitting the P point with the good pressure and timing.<br /> When I really enjoy being fucked, I don’t cum except if I touch myself, but I ooze precum by gallons and I feel some desperation for pee. You cannot invade some ass without some bladder pushing also.</font>

<font color="#3300cc" face="comic sans ms,sand" size="2">I can accept any cock/toy , no matter for size (OK, not 4 inches wide!) if the top know how to open me up with good gesture, some licking and soft ring massage and rubbing.<br /> Now let s be honest, I am more top than bottom, but sometimes I feel the urge to be fulfilled, especially if it s my GF strap on! I bought her several toys to please me and it is so weird and refreshing to use toys on each other. Most girls are not used to that and they actually love it when they discover it.<br /> I had good anal experience with electro stimulation but that s another story!</font><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br />