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The diddler's blog post. October 7, 2012.

[2012-10-07 01:17:48 pm]

I thought I'd write more about my development as an edger.  I gave some background in my July 3, 2012 post, but I got more experienced as time went on, and my edging skill really took off.

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As I wrote in that earlier post, I began practicing using the stop-start technique.  In my early days of edging, I would take my fingers off my clitoris entirely while waiting for the about-to-orgasm sensation to fade.  Then I would start stimulating again.  This was hard for me to judge at first.  The first few times I did this, I didn't wait long enough and orgasmed by accident right after I began rubbing my clitoris again.  As I became more experienced, I didn't remove my fingers but simply stopped stimulating and just held them there during the "stop" periods.  While reading about techniques for men to prolong their orgasm, I was introduced to the squeeze technique.  Clever girl that I was, I thought to myself, "What if I could do the same thing with my own equipment?"  So I began pressing down firmly on my clitoris with my fingers as a way to get the about-to-orgasm feeling to go away, and it worked!

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My twenties were all about continuing to edge better and better.  I got to a point where I was so good at it that I didn't have to stop stimulating at all to edge.  I just kept at it using a gentle, controlled stroke that placed me comfortably below the point of no return.  I call this my "cruising altitude."  And then entirely by accident, I discovered that my edging could be taken to new levels simply by preventing my pc muscle from clenching.  Previously, I would clench and release that muscle throughout masturbation because it felt so good to do it, but if I relaxed it and even "pushed out" at moments when I was dangerously close, I could go on for what seemed like forever.  Another thing I discovered, deep "belly breathing" is key at those dangerously close moments.

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The latter stages of edging are always deliciously pleasant for me.  I get the female equivalent of "blue balls," which is an ache in my lower abdomen that feels like menstrual cramps.  I love the feeling of the ache because that's how I know I'm edging myself real well.  I will also have involuntary pulses of the pc muscle every now and then in these late stages of edging.  The small contractions "let off steam" a bit and allow me to keep stimulating longer and longer without the orgasm approaching.

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The long-delayed orgasm is always an amazing payoff with a good edge.  It's my reward for all of my hard work.


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1 year ago

always a thrill and a pleasure when you show and tell...love the edge too

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1 year ago

You are an inspiration Miss Diddler... and a well educated one at that! you write well.
I'm going to give it a try!

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1 year ago

thank you for your blogs....educational to say the least!

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1 year ago

It is always good to hear from you. It would be wonderful if you could make a full length video showing us how you edge. I can watch you for a full hour or two. :)

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1 year ago

ok........now post videos?

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1 year ago

It's wonderful to hear someone's tale of gratification, especially when it's so successful! I'm way older than you are and I've been edging for quite a while, but even at my most successful I don't think I'm quite as satisfied as you are.

You give me hope for improvement!

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1 year ago

I love edgin and yes the final pay off is amazing.I just wish my girl freind could get into it.

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1 year ago

the many joys and techinques of masturbation :P I have a habbit of edging/playing too long, and end up cumming a lil at a time over and over, till I run dry lol.

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