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More Over sharing, Or Not

[2012-10-01 08:48:13 am]

I've been avoiding this site. I'll masturbate here and there but not as much as times past. I don't really want to hear about sex much or guys. My orgasms are still screwed up. Not that it's stopped me. I guess there are other things weighing on my mind. I wonder if there's some sort of hotline you can call to talk just to someone. Guys used to be distractions from these thoughts but they always turn into another burden in my head. I guess it's time for the thoughts to take center stage.


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Top Comment #1 by: diddler_darlington
1 year ago

I don't know if this is what you are getting at, but if I'm not interested in sex but need the physiological release of an orgasm, I'll do what I call a "vulva self-massage."  I don't think of it as masturbation at all.  It's 20-30 minutes of massage all over the entire area instead of my usual masturbation stroke on my "sweet spot" on the right side of my clit.  In fact, I avoid anything that looks like what I do for usual masturbation.  The vulva self-massage will get me wet and erect, and I will have all of the physiological symptoms of arousal even if I don't think of it as sex.  When I want to end the session, I do a hard and fast "finish off" stroke for just a few seconds, and it makes the orgasm happen.  I can relax and sleep afterwards.

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Top Comment #2 by: bxfinest_33
1 year ago

You can always reach out and talk to me, I am nonjudgemental and objective and positive.

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1 year ago

I don't know if this is what you are getting at, but if I'm not interested in sex but need the physiological release of an orgasm, I'll do what I call a "vulva self-massage."  I don't think of it as masturbation at all.  It's 20-30 minutes of massage all over the entire area instead of my usual masturbation stroke on my "sweet spot" on the right side of my clit.  In fact, I avoid anything that looks like what I do for usual masturbation.  The vulva self-massage will get me wet and erect, and I will have all of the physiological symptoms of arousal even if I don't think of it as sex.  When I want to end the session, I do a hard and fast "finish off" stroke for just a few seconds, and it makes the orgasm happen.  I can relax and sleep afterwards.

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1 year ago

Maybe what you need is a good solid fucking to clear your mind of the burden of your thoughts, you know, some wild hot reckless abandon.

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1 year ago

you are lovely and only need your innate creative energy to ignite

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1 year ago

Thank you all for offering to listen.

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1 year ago

You can always reach out and talk to me, I am nonjudgemental and objective and positive.

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1 year ago

Hey hello, I'm willing to listen and talk to ya. Can't hurt to try right?

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1 year ago

could always talk to me

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